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Should I M with P after breakup?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Amin, Jul 25, 2015.

  1. Amin

    Amin Fapstronaut

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    My main reason for not M'ing was to be a better partner and companion for my girlfriend. Now I'm in day 22 and haven't got the urge even once. but today we broke up for good and I don't have any other reasons and for the first time after no PM I feel like relapsing. What should I do? I am confused, please help!
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    This is from your first post a month ago.

    Why not continue to use these as the reasons to keep free from masturbation and pornography.

    Perhaps you are Zoroastrian or Muslim and that, too, would give you another incentive to stay pure.
     
  3. Amin

    Amin Fapstronaut

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    No I'm not religious actually but you are right maybe getting out of depression and hatred and perfectionism would be achieved by no PM but I'm in my peak of depression right now and M was always a painkiller for me in situations like this.
     
  4. The fact that it was a painkiller for you is the reason to abstain from pornography and masturbation. Our bodies aren't designed to have every bad emotion numbed. It's dangerous because you cannot numb negative emotion without also numbing positive emotion. When you numb depression, instead of talking and working through it, you numb your ability to feel joy also.
     
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  5. 8BitsOfStuggling

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    When you are in pain emotionally, have you ever gone out and drown yourself in alcohol? Well if you haven't, let me tell you what happens. You feel okay while you are wasted, and then when you come off that high, you feel even worse. Same goes with Faping. You have held strong for a long time, why not make it a permanent thing? Never hit that all time low again!
     
    Last edited: Jul 26, 2015
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