Hello, i have been on nofap 3 months , my longest Streak is 19 days, and i failed too many times, but now im really focusing And im on day 13. im into BDSM/CUCKOLD/FOOT FETISH/FEMDOM. I dont mind foot fetish tho. Anyway, i never was into vanilla sex, but now i dont know why but when i think about Sex, it turns me On, when i think the idea of me Being on bed with another girl. so what i want to ask is, i dont have much Idea of sex Etc, Should i watch vanilla sex just to know some things? i know if i see Vanila i will get turned on but i can Control it. Or i should Not? Thanks for your Time and for your answers!!!
My best streak in nofap is 3 days, so it's a bad idea to listen to me. But, if I were you, I would watch it. The most normal ones are softcore, I think? But whatever you do, don't touch your penis.
I've seen somewhere a reddit post of a guy talking about how he took a trip camping one month with a girl, he didn't relapse for one whole month and even when he had sexual urges, he didn't act out on them, I mean like what's the point of acting out on your urges if nothing's wrong happening with your life? And then when he returned home and his job again, the stresses came out again, and he was binging and relapsing for weeks. However, what I'm saying here is NOT an excuse to relapse, this is just a different perspective on it, there are many other people who were in their lowest lows, experiencing the death of a family member and experiencing hardcore drugs, then they miraculously and suddenly changed their life to being way better, and quit their porn addiction.
And if you want to watch porn, I'd suggest you download a porn blocker and let a friend put a pin, it's amazingly useful, and it helped me personally.
It's just gonna be a jump from "okay, if I can handle vanilla, I can handle other stuff as well". Just don't do it.
it was but it never turned me on. but a month ago when i was into 19 days streak. when i was watching vanila, it was turning me on ASF. so i dont really know anything for vanila sex
