Hello everyone. Well, I think this is going to be a quite long post. So, bear with me. First of all, I have been on this forum for 3 years now. My longest streak was 29 days. My biggest issue is that I have this Fing limiting beliefe that I won't be able to break this toxic habit for good. I'm working on that now and I'm trying to affirm my self every single day while also taking care of my life and building new habits. Recently, I talked to this girl that I've known for 4 years. I liked her and I actually tried to take the relationship to the next level but because I'm such a nice guy she friend zoned me, I don't know if that is the main reason though. I stopped talking to her for nearly a year and blocked her on social media just to forget about her. But a couple of days ago I saw her at work and we talked for some time. I know that I'm still in the friend zone but I just can't keep thinking about her. I feel like she's become an obsession. I confess, I'm not the best when it comes to dealing with women and I need to work on that. I have anxiety around them and like I said I usually tend to be nice to them. However, to work on those issues and to forget about that girl I need to start approaching other girls. The question now, should I start approaching now while I'm still rebooting in the first month? or should I wait till I go beyond 30 days? What could I do to forget about that girl?