Should I stay with him?. UPDATE 6/26/19

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Proveyourlove07, May 24, 2019.

  1. EyesWideOpen

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    Oh no, I am so sorry! Are you safe now?
     
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  2. Lostneverland

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    Good lord are you out of there now? I sure hope so.
     
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  3. Proveyourlove07

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    I still live with him for the time being but I have an emergency escape plan
     
  4. Lostneverland

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    Okay...please be wise. Physical abuse is also progressive. If it happened once it will happen again and it will get worse.
    Promise you will be safe...
     
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  5. Fightyourlowerself

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    WHAT!!! OMG!!!!!!! are you ok?

    Why are you still there?!?! Are you scared of leaving because he might hurt you?
    Is there a close girlfriend you can confide in?
     
  6. Proveyourlove07

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    I’ve been trying to wait for a day where he will he out of the house for a while, I don’t have any family in this state, and my closest girl friend lives 2 hours away and I have no car. So I have to time things perfectly
     
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  7. Proveyourlove07

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    Will do!!
     
  8. I would venture that any church or womens group in your area can provide you with a safe haven for a few days u til you get things sorted
     
  9. Proveyourlove07

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    That’s a good idea!
     
  10. Proveyourlove07

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    I’m going to look into it right now, it’ll be a safer bet
     
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  12. Fightyourlowerself

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    @Proveyourlove07
    Our prayers are with you.
    Please keep be careful and only update us if it is safe to do so.
     
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  13. Fightyourlowerself

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    @Proveyourlove07

    I hope you are ok and escaped successfully.

    Update us when you can but always be safe.
     
  14. Hi @Proveyourlove07
    You are so young at 23, I was 23 once and my daughter is 23 too.

    She had a what turned into an abusive codependant relationship. He had all sorts of 'problems ' filmed her and put it on a porn site, without her knowledge, cheated the list goes on. eventually after 3 years of what she called once "true love" ended when she found him with yet another girl - she thumped him in the face knocked him over and walked away. ( I'm not condoning violence) That is well behind her now but what he did still haunts her.

    Now as a mum, I need to tell you being safe is the most important thing you must do for yourself - the first and last. I know you don't have family or friends near by for back up.
    So you must want to be safe for yourself - above all things and not stop til you establish that rule in your life FOREVER!
    LOVE is a bond of care....if you didn't learn it from your parents - I'm a mum in the UK letting you know.
    How this guy is treating you is not LOVE is it?
    There's a reason people can't show love it's not your fault - its not about you. But you deserve to be loved don't you?

    We all do :)
    what are your hopes and dreams? what do you want to do and see in this life? how can you make a small step to being the person you'd like to be?

    Start making a plan to be safe @Proveyourlove07 you are valuable.

    This lady has a tiger inside - I bet you do too.

    lots of love...
     
  15. Fightyourlowerself

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    @Proveyourlove07

    Hey, have been thinking about you recently. I pray you have escaped? Please update us soon if it's safe.
     
  16. EyesWideOpen

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    Hoping to hear that you are safe.
     
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