Hey, guys! A brief background story: I started my addiction to PMO at the age of 12. I am now 23 years old. I didnt try to stop this behaviour until I got caught during my marriage. This was approximately 18 months ago. When we divorced I slipped with PMO during two occasions and masturbated once. To make things clear, I am religious and some things might sound strange to some. I am currently speaking with a girl with the intention of marrying her. We have a small distance between eachothers so we haven’t met, we have only been speaking on phone and videocall. To actually meet her I need to meet her with one of her male relatives. So, in that case it will be very serious between us. My dilemma is whether or not to tell her about my addiction beforehand. I am honesly afraid that it will make her not wanting to continue. I am very fond of her. I dont know if I should tell her before it get serious when we involve her family or after it gets serious. The first alternative seems most fair but she doesnt really know me at this point so it might make her enlarge the whole situation with my addiction since she is probably not aware of its existence. The second alternative may make it the whole thing more difficult for her if it turns out that she doesnt want to live with someone with this problem after involving her family, but that alternative seems very egoistic... I feel very splitted. What is your guys take on this?