Should I use YouTube and Instagram for sexual stimulation

Deep down, you know what watching that will lead to.

 

i understand

 

I think that's the case with most people. Quitting MO isn't that hard most of the time, it's porn which is the killer. I can go weeks with no MO, but spend the same amount of time viewing porn. Because I've haven't MO'd I will make excuses that Porn is OK because I haven't gone the whole way. Porn is awful because you always think there is always something better with each click, which just keeps you glued to a screen.

 

You may be addicted to arousal, you feel powerfull and manly when your sex drive goes up
Let me tell you something, don't do this.
I can tell you from my long experience that it led me to never feel free or happy
Back then I was following some instagram models, I would scroll down through their photos for 5 minutes then leave
I thought it was harmless, but it really kept me feeling not so good, it's still a short term stimulation
Also,I was filled with lust, not love, which prevented me from being my best self
I gave up everything all together, and that's when I felt free and regained my power, I didn't even need anything to stimulate me
Let me give you a healthy substitute:
Think about your future wife,how you want her to be,a beautiful classy loving wife,think about the love and chemistry between two of you
Then think about sex with her, how good and fullfilling it will be, because you love her, because she isn't just a body
For me, when I get lost in this imagination, I feel love, I feel aroused, I feel so fucking motivated to be the best man I could be, I think about long term things rather than short term, and most importantly I regain focus on the type of woman I want, so I don't view women as objects, I don't even care about them, I just care about the type of woman I have in my mind
So, you can do what you want and see how it goes, but my opinion is that you're masking the problem because you're not willing to give up on this external dopamine source
Good luck for you

 

i wouldnt use youtube as an alternative, i found that it was a trigger that kicked off a a cascade that lead me back into pornhub. best advice i can give is if you feel urges then start doing push ups and keep going until you cant move. at the very least you'll get your mind off and start to get a killer pecs!