my wife has no idea I am a PA. I have successfully hid this for our entire marriage. We have a solid intimate relationship but I play off some limp behavior with being tired or some other excuse. The reality is I have been pmo basically every day. Is it worth telling her about the reboot or not? I struggle with this decision every day. I want to tell her but then I don’t at all. This forum helps so much that I wonder if it’s worth the reaction from her? On day 5 and feeling good aside from the tingle of wanting to pmo badly. Moving through it pretty well so far.