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Should my Girlfriend try noFap? The Benefits?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Philomath, Oct 14, 2018.

  1. Philomath

    Philomath Fapstronaut

    Hi! Firstly, I feel a bit presumptuous posting on the behalf of my SO. I have told her I'd be posting this, which she's fine with. :rolleyes:

    Anywho...I understand the biochemical benefits of NoFap for a male: increased testosterone (deeper voice, more confidence ect). Regardless of gender, there's always the benefits to our dopamine systems, so we don't down-regulate and sizzle out our pleasure pathways. :eek:

    But are there any benefits specific to women? Does abstinence induce any other hormonal changes...or have any commonly observed benefits? o_O

    So about my partner.
    Firstly, my girlfriend enjoys her sex a lot. I suffer from DE (takes me a tragically long time to finish), while she almost has the opposite problem. She can have her orgasm within 5-10 minutes, especially if she's over-excited, and she has rapid orgasms soon after. If I pace it out, she can last up until an hour. It's funny, because I always had this long built-up assumption it's hard work to make a woman cum. But not this one. :p

    She does love her porn, and has admitted herself that over the years it has lead to her to embrace harder fetishes like hardcore BDSM. On this topic, I've explained the dangers of porn. She's agreed to cut back on this a bit. She's not just convinced there's any benefit in her not masturbating as much. (And to be honest, maybe she doesn't need to cut back? Hence this exploratory post.) :D

    She might also have an androgen problem - as she has a considerably hairy back, and facial hair below the jawline (can get quite thick and dark) which she can be quite self-conscious about. So again, I don't know if noFap has any bearing or relevance, but might be worth mentioning. :)
     
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  2. I believe it's definitely a good idea for her to join the community PMO is bad biologically and emotionally. It's great that you're helping her out with this problem team work is great :)
     
  3. Meditation Monk

    Meditation Monk Fapstronaut

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    Yes, your girlfriend should definitely try NoFap.
     
  4. It can't hurt her to be here. If nothing else learning, understanding and gaining knowledge would be worth it.
     

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