Here is a question I am asking myself: So, my partner is a reboot process. And he/we/I did take all kind of new measures, so he can hopefully REALLY kick it this time. New, stronger blockers. New, stronger boundaries on my side. New techniques of journaling for him. But I'm still asking myself: should we just stop having sex? I mean, I do have what one could call a "high" sex drive and I do love and want to have sex with him. Often. But is it possible, that it is not helping him/us in the reboot process? I'm just scared that if we stop having sex, then it would be like a "punishment" for me, not having the possibility to get satisfied in that way, because of something I'm not responsible for. I actually really don't want to. But if would really help the process, I guess I would do it anyway. Because the mist important thing to me is getting him healed. I just want him to stop being addicted. So if he can achieve that through me putting my sexual needs aside... I guess I'll do it. Just wanted to know what you guys think about this.