Sick and tired of PMO...

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Andre123, Apr 14, 2017.

  1. Andre123

    Andre123 Fapstronaut

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    I'm 70 years old this year and have been using porn since 22 years old in order to have orgasms. I am now in a new and wonderful relationship but unable to have erections or orgasms. It is affecting my ability to love and be loved and, even though this has been the case for years, THIS relationship means something important to me. I read here that I have desensitization issues and I know it is tied directly to porn. I have been slamming myself for several years now because I am a psychologist and think I ought to know better. But, I also know I have an addiction (have for years) and that it is now an ingrained wiring problem in my brain. It will be hard to cut those wires. But, I learned about NoFap from the Dark Net show and immediately felt a surge of relief..."FINALLY, there is hope" I said to myself. This is an attempt to reclaim my sexuality, yes, even at this advanced age. I have a lot going against me to start with (post prostate cancer survivor with nerve cutting, years of PMO activity, denial, an alcoholic in recovery for the past 29 years, my age now when poor erections are to be expected, etc.), but I also know that I need and now want help. That's why I'm here. I'll follow the recommendations... the first step? - Today I did not PMO so it is Day One of my reboot!
     
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  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  3. Andre123

    Andre123 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, D. J. -
    I plan to visit this site every day and more often if I think about masturbating. I also plan to not sit at the computer naked at any time. I plan to read the entire NoFap site today. I plan to get a person to work with here. I am cautiously optimistic. I appreciate your support.
    Andre
     
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  5. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    I read you post on my profile, how may I help you?
     

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