Hey everyone! Posted this thread in New to Nofap and someone suggested I post here! While searching online for ways to improve my relationship and possible causes for the loss of intimacy I have experienced with my BF I found this forum. Backstory- 2 years ago I started dating the most amazing man! For the first three months are sexy life was relatively normal except my partner was experiencing DE. Through casual conversation he mentioned having some ED with his ex, that he had a history of masturbating several times a day. ( honestly though he was joking and asked no questions) things so slowed down a bit around month 4 and up to 7-8 months he never reached orgasm and then began to show signs of ED with me. To be honest I gained about 25 lbs during this time and really was convinced that was the problem. Sex stopped altogether then and we have only been intimate 2x this last year. Around the year mark I committed to healthy lifestyle and I have lost 33 lbs! I’m a size 5 now......However I didn’t see a spike in his interest and after several months of nothing I initiated. No erection....... several weeks later I brought up the lack of intimacy and my concerns. Again initiated no erection. A few weeks later I let him know it was seriously concerning. He agreed we could work on it. He has gone back to working out and is trying to show interest. He spent many years alone for lots of reasons. Afterresearching and finding this forum everything started to make sense. I guess my question is could he be suffering from PIED and DE due to PMO? Am I crazy for thinking this? We are in our late 30s currently. If so how to I get him to open up to me? Sorry for the long post but thanks for listening!