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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Cypher123, Jun 20, 2020.

  1. Cypher123

    Cypher123 Fapstronaut

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    The only part of my life I've ever felt lonely in is my love life I've never been in a relationship before I've tried though but always got friendzoned.. And ever since started nofap(87 days and going on strong) I've been trying to remove any thoughts of relationships and girls from my mind but i can't anyone got ideas on how i can stop thinking about such cause when i do it makes me feel sad honestly all i want is to just focus on my goals and myself and not think about relationships and girls all the time...
     
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  2. cadia guardsman

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    You have to accept that and try the most you can to ignore that, i know it is hard, for me today it was very hard i also had that toughts all day, but if you do that , usually it Will improve your life
     
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  3. ahighertruth

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    Man when I was 21 I had so many opportunities with women it was crazy. I was addicted to PMO and Weed at the time so I never acted on any of my impulses, but if you are that young and in college I guarentee you have abundance of opportunities to meet women. A lot of you are lucky man, I am the most cursed person in the world. I didn't even realize until I was frickin 30 that weed and porn are bad for you.
     
  4. p1n1983

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    Focus all your energies in your goals. Girls are just a side effect of living a good life. Man that focus only in relationships get friendzoned. Focus on girls and they will fade away. Focus on building a happy life by yourself and girls will be all over you.
     
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  5. anaturalsatori

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    Thoughts of relationships and girls may never go away. I think you should try accepting that and learn to balance that with all your goals.
     
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  6. Cypher123

    Cypher123 Fapstronaut

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    ] its not easy
     
  7. Cypher123

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    I haven't had that many opportunities cause im unattractive
     
  8. ahighertruth

    ahighertruth Fapstronaut

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    I used to think this too but just being young in college means you HAVE opportunities. I've seen the ugliest dudes pull cute girls. I swear its possible, just needs some effort.
     

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