Size rant

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BrSweat

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Just obsessed with my duck ever since I measured it, its dead centre on average measurements( girth and length). But everytime I'm reminded of my size by a stimulus, I desire from the bottom of my heart to have just a few more measly inches. I fantasize about how just 2 more inches to my length and 3 to my girth would make it perfect and satisfy any chick.

How do I stop obsessing about this bc everytime I see a girl I can't help but feel short changed and think a random dude would probably be bigger than me and she'd have more fun with him. Dosent help I have a fucking
cu*kold fetish
. Which has probably made this 100x times more depressing.
 
Consider that porn maybe lied. About women, about men, about sex. Consider that maybe average size is average for a reason. And consider that maybe size isn’t the thing about sex that women enjoy. I mean, if porn could record emotional connection they probably would, but they can’t. So they’re stuck with oversized dongs instead.
 
First of all, by reading your post, I believe you understand your obsession over the "size" is unnecessary and irrational. In this sense, such obsession is more or less the same as your sexual urges -- they are both unwanted thoughts coming up in your head which don't represent you. So, I would suggest treating those thoughts just like when you are fighting your PMO / fetish urges. The thoughts will keep coming, but you have the power to choose not to react to any of them, and just watch them come and go. In this way, as time goes by, I believe you will be less attached to those ideas about the "size", and hence the obsession itself.

I hope this helps, and good luck to you!
 
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desmond3 said:
First of all, by reading your post, I believe you understand your obsession over the "size" is unnecessary and irrational. In this sense, such obsession is more or less the same as your sexual urges -- they are both unwanted thoughts coming up in your head which don't represent you. So, I would suggest treating those thoughts just like when you are fighting your PMO / fetish urges. The thoughts will keep coming, but you have the power to choose not to react to any of them, and just watch them come and go. In this way, as time goes by, I believe you will be less attached to those ideas about the "size", and hence the obsession itself.

I hope this helps, and good luck to you!
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Hey, the thoughts arent really irrational, its a rational fear of not being big enough to satisfy the girl. Ive had this fear deep down which caused me to feel inferior since I was a teen but it wasnt obsessive as it is now but still.

I will try to just let it be though, thank you
 
Meshuga said:
Consider that porn maybe lied. About women, about men, about sex. Consider that maybe average size is average for a reason. And consider that maybe size isn’t the thing about sex that women enjoy. I mean, if porn could record emotional connection they probably would, but they can’t. So they’re stuck with oversized dongs instead.
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Yeah true, right now I'm stuck in "the bigger the better" mindset. It would be huge for my confidence
 
The world, as we see today, is full of so many lies. People have been told lies again and again so many times that majority has started believing them or is obsessed over them, e.g whether God exists or not, our country is fighting for democracy or not, getting rich will make you extremely happy and fullfilled etc.

Not only women have been trained through social media and movies that it is completely fine to stay naked or in tight clothes 24x7 in public, they have been brainwashed to think size matters and they should talk about it.
"Does size matter" is one of those lies which is being fed to us since decades. Not only size actually and scientifically doesnt matter ( read about it, if you are above 2.5inches you are ok that is why most males can marry any females), we have been made so much obsessed about it that it has destroyed self esteem of every second male
 
I happen to have a big dick, about 2 inches above average in length and girth.
Sure it’s nice sometimes. The last girl I had sex with, told me it’s the biggest and most beautiful, she’s ever seen. Of course that’s a nice ego boost.
But I can tell you about all the things where it actually sucks. Spoilers ahead:
The girl before that was so tight, I could not even fit it in. Talk about unsatisfying sex.
Blowjobs are sometimes with a lot of teeth, just because some girls can not open their mouth that wide. I can not blame them, because if I tried to stick something as big in my mouth, it was uncomfortable as hell.
Oh and I never had anal sex. Girls told me they’ve done it before and actually like it, but they look at me in panic every time I get near their ass. So frustrating.
So the takeaway here is, being average does have its perks.
 
BrSweat said:
Just obsessed with my duck ever since I measured it, its dead centre on average measurements( girth and length). But everytime I'm reminded of my size by a stimulus, I desire from the bottom of my heart to have just a few more measly inches. I fantasize about how just 2 more inches to my length and 3 to my girth would make it perfect and satisfy any chick.

How do I stop obsessing about this bc everytime I see a girl I can't help but feel short changed and think a random dude would probably be bigger than me and she'd have more fun with him. Dosent help I have a fucking
cu*kold fetish
. Which has probably made this 100x times more depressing.
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There is always someone whos better
 
BrSweat said:
Just obsessed with my duck ever since I measured it, its dead centre on average measurements( girth and length). But everytime I'm reminded of my size by a stimulus, I desire from the bottom of my heart to have just a few more measly inches. I fantasize about how just 2 more inches to my length and 3 to my girth would make it perfect and satisfy any chick.

How do I stop obsessing about this bc everytime I see a girl I can't help but feel short changed and think a random dude would probably be bigger than me and she'd have more fun with him. Dosent help I have a fucking
cu*kold fetish
. Which has probably made this 100x times more depressing.
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If it helps . . . adding that much length and girth to an average dick would be not just big but HUGE. It also help to have a clear idea of what average is. Having the same obsession and looking at lots of studies, I would say that average for a caucasian like myself would be 5.5 inches fully erect, not bone pressed and 4.8 inches circumference for average girth. And
at 4.5" length on a good day, I know that statistically every random dude DOES have a bigger dick, as well as probably every guy she's ever been with. :oops:
At least, statistically speaking, most guys might only be an inch longer, but 95% of all guys have a longer dick. On the upside, I have average girth. :D
 
FellowAddcit said:
I happen to have a big dick, about 2 inches above average in length and girth.
Sure it’s nice sometimes. The last girl I had sex with, told me it’s the biggest and most beautiful, she’s ever seen. Of course that’s a nice ego boost.
But I can tell you about all the things where it actually sucks. Spoilers ahead:
The girl before that was so tight, I could not even fit it in. Talk about unsatisfying sex.
Blowjobs are sometimes with a lot of teeth, just because some girls can not open their mouth that wide. I can not blame them, because if I tried to stick something as big in my mouth, it was uncomfortable as hell.
Oh and I never had anal sex. Girls told me they’ve done it before and actually like it, but they look at me in panic every time I get near their ass. So frustrating.
So the takeaway here is, being average does have its perks.
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Thank you for sharing the downsize of having some size. In response to the last drawback you mentioned - it's only happened once, but I actually had a girl ask me to do that . . . because she saw how small mine was. :)
 
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