Hey Guys, I am the HAPPIEST man alive having stumbled upon this website. I have been telling everyone I know about this site and am 100% committed to fix my Death Grip Syndrome (DGS) so I can cum from vaginal intercourse, blow jobs etc. Let's take a step back and let me explain to you who I am etc. I am 28 years old. Since I was 16 years old, I have PMO with sexual lubricant basically on a daily basis. I CANNOT cum without lubricant. I had sex for the first time when I was 17. I remember it so well - I was thinking - whaaaat? really?? this is sex?? I couldn't feel anything!!! I was wearing a condom but I just didn't feel anything. Never came and it's been the same since then! I am a good looking guy, I am good with girls - but I could never hold a relationship because I cannot cum from sex, blowjobs, basically nothing. I have had to finish myself on a girl WITH lubricant every time I ever had sex. EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!!!!! Can you imagine that? I have slept with so many women - and not one of them has ever made me cum. There has been the odd occasion where I did cum from a blowjob etc. but this is because the girl was super slutty which triggered some sort of fantasy of porn. Long story short - I never talked about this to anyone until a few months ago when a girl friend of mine told me that I am super missing out and that I need to fix this. That this WAS the reason girls were breaking up with me! This was the reason why I was single my whole life. Girls left me because I couldn't cum and it was weird for them. Well......this is going to change. I am now in day 5 of no masturbation and intend to at least get to day 30-40 (advice needed on what I need in my specific situation). Deleted all my porn and never want to watch it again - this isn't easy...obviously. BUT I NEED TO REBOOT. PERIOD. NO GOING BACK. I am the only one that can make me cum. I have developed such a rhythm with my hand that is hard etc. and sat with a laptop in front of me watching porn my whole life that this is the only way to cum. I went on this website called curedeathgrip and from there I started following this plan where I don't masturbate for one week and then use a fleshlight to mimic sexual intercourse and to align what sex is like for my dick. I just ordered the fleshlight. I don't think that is a good idea to do just yet as I think I shouldn't masturbate at all for at least 30-40 days to "reboot". Maybe then I should use the fleshlight and use it with a condom. Advice welcome! I discovered this site 24 hours ago and I am soooo incredibly happy. It's better than the curedeathgrip one I think. Seems like there is more a community here and I can see that other people have had the same problem as me! I just started seeing a new girl and my third date is coming up. I am day 5 into no masturbation. How does it work with carrying out a plan like this? Can I sleep with her? Do I have hope??? Advice here please!! Any guidance you recommend? I need everyone's help - I need to change my life and once and for all be able to cum and resolve the Death Grip Syndrome that has ruined my life. Thank you so much for your time. I look forward hearing your comments, if anyone has had similar stories and the HOPE that I have?