Slept with more than 200 women - Never came once - Death Grip Syndrome

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Mystery Agent, Mar 26, 2016.

  1. Physicist

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    time and patience cures it. Nothing else.

    If you want to speed it up, have sex without orgasming. Don't even orgasm yourself. Pleasure the girl and sleep.

    Non-ejaculatory sex

    Generally, they do suck at handjobs. It is true unless shes had a lot of experience.

    Some men want a girlfriend, some want multiple partners. Who are we to judge?
     
  2. DireMerl

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    Then all men suck at oral. Stop generalizing. Fyi, that has sod all to do with deathgrip. I've never had any complaints. Honestly, so many men in here talk so much shit. Its like saying women can't drive, women suck at this or that. Talk about your own experiences sure, but stop insulting half of the population just because you have The luxury of anonymous posting.

    How would you like it if I started posting about how all men are obsessed with porn and are unable to satisfy a woman because they have pied. Just because the guys on here have these problems, does not mean every man on the planet suffers from the same.

    There are women on here too. Think before you post.

    There is nothing wrong with the women. This is something you have done to yourself. Stop jerking it to porn and you will get over it.
     
  3. Physicist

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    And yes, men with little experience do suck at oral. I'm not sure why you are taking this personally and getting defensive. It is a generalisation, but it isn't necessarily meant to be a negative one. No way this implies women are bad and less than men. Not sure why you are getting that. Could you explain that please?

    This has nothing to do with feminism politics if you are wondering. Men have has thousands of hours to practice on their penis. Women not so much. And the opposite is quite true as well.

    For those who have had PIED, they probably can't. I know this myself.

    Again, not sure why you are taking this as being something "wrong" with women.
     
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  4. DireMerl

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    Then change your terminology. Stating that we 'suck' at something is insulting. The reason is in fact, BECAUSE you have spent hours practicing on your own penises. You can't feel anything else.

    How hard can it be? It is taking hold and moving up and down. Its not rocket sience. I'm not getting defensive. I'm simply tired of negative comments about women on this forum. There are a lot of women on here too. Seeking support for partners or having issues themselves.

    Let me break it down. My husband suffers from de and death grip syndrome. Which is what prompted me to look at this thread in the first place. To see if there was any new information I could take away from the discussion. Now what do I take away from this conversation? I, and all of the other women out there who struggle with this shit daily, are just terrible at sex acts. Hell, might as well just say our vaginas are awful and that's why men struggle to ejaculate with us.

    Frankly, anything that you post on this forum, that even hints at placing blame upon the partner, has a damaging effect on women who have already suffered enough self esteem bashing.

    If you have never experienced this issue, do you realise how HORRIBLE it is, to feel like you're not skilled enough sexually to please your partner? I suffer this every day. So when I read that women are just crap at handjobs, I get pissed. Of your lady friend isn't doing it right, then show her. Tell her. But don't assume that it's just something that women are no good at.
     
  5. HopeFaith

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    U are funny! Agree with every single world!
     
  6. Physicist

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    Sucking at something isn't meant to be insulting unless you take it that way.

    I have spoken to guys who aren't addicted to PMO say that females aren't generally good at HJs. Many females admit it themselves. Some of them do "suck" at giving them. Again, a fair generalisation but not a negative one. I also said the opposite was true because men do also "suck" at oral sex.

    (no puns intended)

    Again, not sure how that was meant as a negative comment. I have said this to other females. and they didn't even think it was "negative".

    Heh we can go down to the science of HJs if you want. More than up and down. Its kind of like simplifying giving oral sex to females as "just lick up and down" ;)

    Sorry to hear about your husband. Again, I'm sure the original comment wasn't meant to be directed at particular female here. If you want to discuss further, go off on a tangent or hyperbole then it isn't for this thread. We can do so in another thread.

    Although, if I'm honest, it seems to that you might be saying this because you are a female i.e. having a reaction to this so to speak.

    Read above when I said this wasn't mean to be bashing females and bashing their self esteem, especially the part of me discussing it with the opposite sex. I'll even say this, so what if a particular girl isn't really good at a HJ? Not like I'll say "oh she isn't good material because she is unable to go 'up and down' properly."

    I have experienced such a situation but I never took it this way. Me and my partner communicated and worked together to understand each other and our needs. And I would do it with any future partners too because he "push" buttons will be a bit different.

    Also when you say "I get pissed", it is reacting and getting defensive. Maybe perhaps ask questions before assuming?

    I'll repeat again, men are no exception. Men suck at oral sex. Men suck at being dominant. Men suck at being leading. Men suck at romance. Feel free to say that to and I'll agree with you. Most men aren't sex gods and to say all that is a fair generalisation. Maybe some of them can open a book and learn a thing or two.
     
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  7. diamondboi

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    you never answered my question.

    See first page.
     
  8. Mystery Agent

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    Mate you are a flat out idiot.

    This is a support forum not for some moron like yourself to come on here and laugh. YOU have serious problems and should be banned.
     
  9. Just curious... Did you end up trying this method?? I think I have death grip syndrome and I remember posting about this method and I got a lot of flak for bringing it up. If you did try it, how did the plan go?
     
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  10. Mystery Agent

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    Hey buddy - After coming across THIS website afterwards (and idiotically ordering the fleshlight so quickly because I was so excited) I am not going to use it. I am only into day 8 of no PMO. So to answer your question - I am just going to try and get to Day 90 with no PMO and will try not to use the fleshlight.

    I will however have sex with girls and fool around with them in the mean time - though I will try and tone this down.

    What do you mean by flak? Hope I helped :/
     
  11. Ok, thanks for answering. I've read stories where nofap has cured deathgrip but since you brought up that method I was just curious if it actually worked. But then again knowing myself I don't think I could ever just M only once every week... And flak means strong criticism.
     
  12. IGY

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    Your reboot will be quicker and more effective if you abstain from sex, especially at the start of the process. Did you read the link I gave about how many days it will take? I wonder because you have decided to go for 90 days. :rolleyes: I said:
    Yes, any and all damage caused can be healed. The solution is to stop touching and rubbing your dick, keep your mind clean and do not watch porn. Good luck.
     
  13. Mystery Agent

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    Yeh I know there is no exact time limit...each person is different...you're spot on..BUT im already at day 8...which is the longest in history and for example getting to day 90 would be a HUGE success...so I gotta take it in steps...
     
  14. TheWife

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    Hello everyone,
    Let's cool it on the gross generalizations and assumptions. It won't help with what this forum is here for, which is to provide support for those who have been affected by porn addiction.
    TW (the Handbrake)
     
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  15. FredSamson

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    200? Please tell me your secrets. I don't know if I have even talked to more than 200 ;-)
     
  16. Limp Biscuits

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    I'd have been as surprised as you a few years ago. If you're a caucasian person, visit Thailand, Cambodia, or Indonesia and you'll see just how easy it is to get laid. If you get Tinder, it makes it even easier. I can sleep with women every single night of the year thanks to Tinder. You have to look clean (and smell clean) and not be unhealthy (e.g. fat).

    In fact, it's almost impossible for me to go clubbing and NOT bring home a girl to sleep with.
     
  17. zingaro

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    you have to learn to enjoy sex again. Without porn. Best advice: keep your hand in your pants...
     
  18. zingaro

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    I have had similar problems. Slept with a lot of girls, not 200! but still a lot :) I cannot complain about my looks and I'm good with woman. Still with some of them i couldn't come.

    When i stopped porn for a long period a met a girl, and with her it hasn't been a problem. 2 weeks a go, i watched to much porn. Then when i had sex with her the ED came back. It is not such a big deal. I also masturbate before her and that does the trick. But i couldn't not notice that i wasn't really enjoying the sex. Nope. It felt like WORK!!! This is the major problem. Sex has to be enjoyable, intimate, relax. Porn destroys all these things, cause you need to see this images…
     

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