Small Pen*s Club - (males, females and non-binary welcome)

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  1. Agent 6

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    It is so significant of an issue that it is always on my mind, (and probably others as well). I would say for me, there hasn't been a single hour in my awake adult life, besides me being asleep, that I don't think about my size. It has haunted me since I started to become more self aware of my body, and especially the realizations of inadequacy within sexual encounters. A year ago I found a surgical procedure that I plan on having since I measure around the micro-penis range.
     
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  2. Hard Mode

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    @Agent 6 , That's harsh to describe your own "manhood" as a "micro-penis".

    What is the micro-penis range?

    The awareness of penis size has been there for me too, ever since I was 13-14yo and realized that me penis was already larger than some adult men's. It filled me with confidence and strength already at that young age, and I remember the feeling of power when my classmates would comment on how long and thick my fuck tool was. Sometimes I'd purposely place myself next to one of the smallest guys in the locker room so that everyone would notice the difference in size between his penis and mine. In hindsight, that was a cruel thing to do as it often resulted in the smaller boy being teased, but I was young and didn't know better back then.

    I do believe tho that being a Hung Man has strongly contributed to making me an Alpha Male, as it gave me a kick start in confidence when other boys gave me compliments and respect at a young age. Those boys "admitting defeat" by telling me I "got them beat" or that I was "The Boss", made me begin to take charge in our group of friends, and quickly finding that the more you take charge the easier it gets to continue to do so.

    I would love to hear other guys's thoughts on this...
     
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  3. Agent 6

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    The micro penis range is defined as 3” erect or smaller. So technically no I don’t have a micro-penis but when flaccid yes I am in range. It bothers me to look at my own dick bro.

    When you speak about your groups and taking charge, I believe for myself all of this, the addiction, the benefits, everything all stems from confidence in self. Speaking for myself here, I would say that having a bigger member would increase my confidence significantly to insurmountably high levels.

    For me, I want to have that feeling of “yeah I got a nice cock!” Not “I have a penis”. It’s that mindset of confidence. Women must sense it. The “big dick energy” is a saying for a reason, so I believe.
     
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  4. Hard Mode

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    WOW! That's small for sure! Mine is 5 to 6 inches when totally flaccid.

    I'm sorry to hear that it bothers you to look at our own penis. That's not good. A penis should be a source of joy, not of shame. Did you get teased in school? Did classmates ever comment on your size?
     
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    I was lucky to not experience anything growing up or in school. It wasn't until about 4 years ago when I was already an adult going to the gym and showering did I feel the most inadequate. That, and previous sexual experiences where my size interfered. Honestly though like I said, I'm able to be more at peace with myself because I found a procedure that I plan on getting so I am looking forward to that.

    I would ask you, as a person who has a bigger member, how has that played into your PMO?
     
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  6. Hard Mode

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    Being Hung has sometimes led me to enjoy my dick a little too much. LOL! There's been a lot of masturbation.

    I really like my dick, the way it feels and the way it looks. Stroking it becomes extra fulfilling because of the power that I know my size carries. The problem is that it can feel so good that I keep stroking for hours on end, wasting time and energy that should be spent on better things.

    I have now been on Hard Mode for 2+ months. It's not easy, but I feel good about it!

    What about you and PMO? Has your size played into that?
     
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    Definitely. I will try to keep this short:

    They (scientists) say there isn't any evidence that masturbation as a young boy leads to a smaller penis, but I believe it has to have some sort of effect. I started PMO at the age of 12. It was like discovering fire, so I believe all that lack of nutrients from my seed going right into puberty stunted my penis growth.

    Being an adult, I would PMO every now and then, but since the lack of relationships and intimacy with a girlfriend plus some depression, I am struggling bad now. Working on it. My size 100% plays into my PMO addiction because It is a constant reminder that if a conversation goes anywhere with a woman, I would have to perform, and I know that I am lacking in that area, which causes me to be depressed about it and that leads to PMO. This has been a continuous cycle. It's like, I can converse with women no problem, but that underlying performance sexually lingers in my mind, and I just have that understanding that I'm not even at the average size which really destroys my confidence.
     
  8. @Hard Mode and @Agent 6 - it's great to see this dialogue happening and to hear both of your perspectives on this! :)

    If I can answer the same question -

    I also suspect that frequent masturbation is part of why mine is so small.
    Maybe some guys tug on theirs a lot but my method was to create more friction on the down stroke (perhaps simulating penetration more?) and maybe doing that so much made it shorter?

    I further suspect that being small makes my penis more sensitive (kind of like an oversized clitoris) and I was prone to premature ejaculation. (Or, maybe I having a small one left me feeling insecure, and more prone to anxiety, which then led to the premature ejaculation). Early on, I made it a point to masturbate as often as possible in hopes to desensitise my penis and hopefully avoid embarrassing situations.

    And, of course, not getting much sex led me indulge in porn and masturbation more often. :rolleyes:

    For years I didn't get it. I think I sensed that I wasn't very big, and I had a hard time understanding my sexual failures with women, but it really didn't hit me until I had a girlfriend tell me directly that she had since been with larger men and didn't think she could ever be satisfied with my little penis. :(

    (She did have sex with me one more time after that, and then looked me in the eyes when I entered her and said in a mocking tone, "feels good, doesn't it?" - as if she knew how much I thought about her with those other men and how badly I wanted to make love to her even once . . . while knowing that she had been getting plenty of sex in the months since we'd last had sex together).

    Nowadays, my small penis is a trigger for me. I feel weak and pathetic when I see how small it is flaccid, or even just thinking about it. :oops:
    But, when I have an erection, I get really triggered just by seeing it and seeing how small it really is. Then I usually get even more erect and it just feels so frustrating to see it utterly maxed out in size and yet still so much smaller than a decent sized cock. Other than getting teased by a girl, that's probably my biggest trigger and my gut reaction is to want to look at porn where women degrade me for being too small (or a loser or a wanker) and just beat off to get those feelings out of my system. Pretty sad, huh?

    So yes, I think have a small penis is a big part of my PMO addiction. It caused it, it was caused by it, and it continues to pull me back to PMO.
     
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  9. backapollyon

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    Dont know why some guys in this thread are saying: "oh im sorry but im afraid you are a loser and you cannot satisfy a woman but its ok you accept that"

    Damn no. Im 5.1, and im insecure too, but is not like we are lost here. In my opinion, it is hard for people like us to find a "1 night sex", because there will be bigger guys, but if you really like a girl and she does too, your size wouldnt be a problem in a relationship. I mean, you should be able to tell your partner your thoughts, and for example there are like silicone sleeve (dont know if it is written like that) that would be weird if you just met a woman, but if she is your partner I dont see where would be a problem.

    Talking about premature. E., I've had it since my first time (at 14) and I'm 18 now, thats my greatest insecurity, have you got it always? do you still have it?
     
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  10. My PE went away for years* … because I started masturbating every day :rolleyes:

    that worked, but I wouldn’t recommend it.

    I ended up with DE instead, and while PE makes you feel bad about yourself, nothing makes a woman feel worse than having sex with a guy and feeling like she can’t make him orgasm :(

    * in all those years, I only had PE once … when it really mattered. Somehow I managed to get with this smoking hot girl and 4 seconds later … darn it!!
     
  11. Agent 6

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    This is very true for me as well.
     
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  13. Thoughts on penis size and pubic hair style . . .

    I would love to hear from the small guys and the big guys, and thin and thick and average (and from women, too!) - how does your penis size affect your choices for pubic hair?

    I'm sure you've all heard that shaving your balls makes your dick look bigger. :rolleyes:
    Some have also suggested that shaving all the hair off allows for deeper penetration. :)

    Well, I'm well aware that I have a small one and have opted to keep mine totally hairless (no "landing strip").

    Honestly, with full pubes, mine would practically disappear in the hair when flaccid, especially when cold! :eek:

    With all my hair gone (I've been waxing it regularly for several years) it does feel a little bit bigger sometimes.

    More importantly, it feels like I'm not hiding it. Yes, I have a small penis but it's what I got and I'm not afraid to show it. (When, in truth, part of me is terrified of other people seeing it, but I feel like I'm more okay with it.)

    On some level, having no hair down there makes it look like more of a boy penis than a man dick, but maybe that's appropriate, too. One of my ex girlfriends used to tease that I'm hung like a 14 year old. Maybe going totally hairless is a fitting and honest way to present what I have to offer.

    How about you guys? Do you trim or shave? Do you wax yours? Or do you rock a full bush like a lumberjack?
     
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    I trim mine down. The best way I can describe it is it’s visible but you can’t grab the hairs. I like it this length.
     
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    Dude, I really admire you for being able to be so brutally honest with yourself!

    What you are saying is quite taboo, but I think it makes a lot of sense. If your penis haven't really grown since you were 11, then why should it have hair!?! It will probably look more natural without it.

    By shaving it closely you also show that you are not ashamed of being very small. That's a strong statement! I think you are shaving for the right reason. Unfortunately, there are some very small guys out there who shave because they feel that they don't deserve to have pubes. That's not healthy!

    I had a roommate when I was younger whom I think did that. We both saw each other naked ever-so-often and he openly admitted to feeling inadequate compared to me, and would talk about how he was ashamed of his small prick and how he "respected" a dick like mine. It was a little weird, for sure.

    I don't usually shave my pubes. A large Man Penis like mine should have hair. I have tried it of course (lost some bets LOL), and it's interesting how the thickness gets so much more apparent and it looks heavier.
     
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  16. Saitama.Sensei

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    wow should i join small penis club? would never thought :confused:
     
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  17. Vanquisher12

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    Tried shaving the hair off above my cock, to be honest I thought it didn’t look any bigger than with pubes left as they were so stopped doing it. Luckily I can gather all my pubes into a bush and raise them up if I want to show a girl my full length.

    And I’m not shaving my balls. That’s just asking for trouble, particularly as I’m especially proud of my balls (they’re on the larger end of the spectrum, they’re in a large sack so hang down almost down to the end of my dick when it’s flaccid, and produce large amounts of sperm that squirt pretty strongly out of my cock when I cum).
     
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  18. Yes, yes. All are welcome to participate! :)
     
  19. I think porn and social media has warped everyones view on sex and penis size, I am 6 inches exactly and when my virgin ex saw it she was amazed saying she has never seen something so big, she had an innocent mind and that is how it should be, most girls do not want a horse cock unless you are hypersexual and grew up in a bad environment where sex is common like the projects (aka the ghetto).
     
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  20. Having a small penis definitely can become a trigger, especially if you are into degrading porn, like sissy porn.
     
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