Hey Hard Mode don't take this the wrong way at all please. I don't really think that he's grasping for straws. I think he just really wants to talk to people about it. I say this because I know sometimes people can seem to go back and forth when they are struggling with something. I have heard some bigger guys say they have been objectified and only seen as that. Hell I even know of men that other guys hate on or try to challenge because they are big. So maybe that's what he's saying about the positives. Some men will even try to hold you back if they know that maybe the woman they like could be around you or they'll start rumors against your character. I've had men try to keep me from liking men and make up lies about them or manipulate me because the rumor is he's well hung and well he is he's also intelligent and handsome. But some jealous men will try to hate on a bigger guy. So even though I'm sure you wouldn't change your size for anything and it's not a bad thing. Imagine someone wanting to make your job harder or get you fired so they could have more money to get women than you or telling a woman you like bad things just so they won't like you because they know they don't have what you have and maybe can't compete. It could also be a defense mechanism and sometimes people don't realize they have those. Bigger guys are usually confident and can fend for themselves but still those could be disadvantages. Maybe your boss doesn't give you a promotion because his wife is looking at your penis, you just never know. Big men go through things too even though I thinks it's worth it. Anyway just trying to offer another perspective. I think Ten Percent seems pretty humble and just was looking for someone to talk to rather than trying to brag about his small penis.