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Small penis vibes

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by +TenPercent, Sep 20, 2020.

  1. A girl I was dating years ago told me that I gave off small penis vibes / that women can tell if a guy has a small dick.
    I've been thinking about this a lot lately and am wondering how true it is. Can women tell? Do they just know somehow?
    Reflecting on the men at work, most don't really give off any particular vibe but I can think of at least one who's just super nice, kind of pudgy, and I could imagine that he gives off small penis vibes, while another guy comes to mind who is large, muscular, commanding, very alpha and always flirting with the sexier women at work . . . so yeah, big penis vibes coming from that guy.

    Also, I'm not saying that small penis vibes is even a bad thing. In my mind such a man might be a really good caring person, someone who might make for a great life partner and a good father. Everybody like this guy at work who I imagine gives off small penis vibes.

    Anyone else have thoughts on this topic? Experiences? Are there any females reading who would like to share their views?

    Thanks!
     
  2. p1n1983

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    Is not about the size, is how amount of confidence you display. The first guy you displayed was the typical nice guy with low confidence, for a woman that is a turn off so is natural for woman to associate that guy with a small penis. I think that the "small penis" thing is a representation of a man that have a low worth for woman.
    In the other hand the second guy is the typical alpha male that all woman want and yes they all perceive him as a big cock guy.
    Think about it.. you as a man was able to notice the vibe those guys have, image girls that had years and decades looking at mans behavior to separate the alpha from the beta and of course date only the alpha.

    Basically you were a beta back then according to this woman, that's not good. I hope you changed that around!
     
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  3. Lol she was probably just talking shit. Nobody is a psychic. You worry too much my guy.
     
  4. neverpolitcallycorrect

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    WOW classic insecurity , this girl is a loser with women its all about projecting there insecuritys and anxiety on others this one is a real nut move on nobody can see what your packing just by looking at you clothed , LMAO
     
  5. Thank you guys for the replies.
    I suppose it is possible that the beta guy I described at work has a big cock and that the alpha guy I described has a small dick but . . . I doubt it. If nothing else, testosterone levels do affect penis size and testosterone affects us physically in other ways as well - facial hair, facial features, musculature, voice etc so there have to be some obvious clues (beyond the bulge, or lack there-of) for women to anticipate the size of a man's manhood.

    As it happens, I do have a small penis (short, bottom 5% by most studies) so I have often wondered if women can tell. I've had many experiences where women seem immediately attracted to me, but that interest seems to fade almost immediately once we start interacting. I imagine that I look alpha (tall, fairly fit, CEO type good looks) but that I gave off some sort of vibe. Was it desperation, wanker or small penis vibes? I've done much to address the first two, but my size hasn't increased.
    And I swear, women can tell when a guy is checking them out, even when they are turned around. It's like they can feel our eyes on them. One hottie at work always turns around in a flirty way when I'm looking at her, even though she couldn't possibly have know that I was there! I imagine that she lives for male attention, but other girls might find such attention to be "creepy".
    Anyway - if they can tell that we are looking (pheromones, maybe?) is it unreasonable that they can gauge certain qualities of our sexual fitness?
     
  6. lwyrup

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    that's kinda the most relatable thing I've read in a while:emoji_joy::emoji_joy:
     
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  7. fapequalsdeath

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    yes women are better at reading people on an emotional level, of course they can't know for sure how big your dick is but they can sense it in a way, better than a man at least. They are definitely better at spotting who is looking at them as well, since all throughout the ages they needs to spot a potential suitor and I would argue that it's like an instinct ingrained in them. Idk what to advise on the confidence and psychological dealing of having a small dick though. Maybe cuz I have a small statistically small dick as well. It does get me down most of the time. You can always work on getting more money and better fitness and then women would want you for that. The problem is if you get a woman who wants you for your money and is not pleased in bed, would she go and fuck Chad? I think that's the deep down fear that having a small dick mentality. It's not about the size but your value of a man. If you have a small dick you think you cannot please women, by thinking you cannot please women you think yourself as incompatible for future parters and therefore offspirng. No offspring means genetical death which can be experinced like ur own death. And that's pretty terrifying, the constant insecurity which feels like death actually funnels more and more depression, lack of self worth and trust issues with women. It's a vicious cycle that can hardly be broken. Since you'll always know your dick is small. And you can't do anyhting about it which paralyzes you even more. Acceptance? Denial? Forgiveness? If someone knopws the trick to having good psychological health while having a small dick, feel free to share.
     
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  8. Also let me throw in some advice - women don't care about dicks as much as guys (especially incels) think they do. The CLASSIC mindset is "if I have a small dick I'm screwed and guaranteed to fail no matter what".

    I've seen stats that say women do not orgasm during sex nearly as much as men do. Hence, there are better methods to please women in bed that do not involve your johnson. For example, fingering, oral, using toys.

    Male pornstar talks about it in this 4 hour podcast I didn't watch.
     
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  9. Ahiphena

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    I'd guess "small penis vibe" is less to do with the size of your penis and more with your demeanor in general. People in general associate certain traits with having a small penis, its just a societal bias or something.

    I've not been told I have "small penis vibes" but I have had women, including a few I'm relatively close to, say that I can sometimes give off creepy vibes. I assume its similar.
     
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  10. ShadyPerson

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    If this was a parody post, it'd be genius. This shit about women having superior intuition has gotten out of hand. You don't become a fucking psychic by having a vagina. I can see how some things like insecurity and desperation could be visible to women, since they can be actually pretty obvious to spot for anyone. People seem to think that they are way more subtle about it than they actually are. Propably myself included.

    Also unless she actually directly told you that women can tell men's dick sizes, I'm pretty sure you have misunderstood and she didn't mean small penis vibes literally as a sign of you having a small penis. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Small+Dick+Energy&amp=true

    It doesn't work that way.
     
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  11. Yeah this is kind of an abysmal IQ thread tbh.
     
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  12. @+TenPercent this the bazillionth thread about dixize by you. This fixation is doing you no favors. Drop it. Do you think the guy in your avi would waste even a second of his time on this shit?
     
  13. You mean Mozart? I guess not
     
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  14. Bro you really need to calm down. First of all ask yourself do you really have a small penis or not. 5 inch penis is the average. If below 5 inch, it is consider as small. Coming back to the question, you said you guys have dated. Has she seen your penis? If she has then probably that particular girl is not ok with it. Some women crave for big penises. There is no such thing as small penis vibe if she hasn’t seen your penis.
     
  15. No. Mozart was too busy contemplating literal shit.
     
  16. Haha! (@ Mozart) That kinda made my day! :D

    Not a bad guess, actually. But the guy in avatar is actually Napolean Bonaparte. Not sure if he, or Josephine, worried about it much in his lifetime, but little did he know that the shrivelled remains of his penis would end up in the hands of a famous urologist in the States (I think New Jersey . . . ) :eek:
     
  17. I get that and it's kind of what I'm asking about . . . wondering if there's more to it than that.

    She said that I had a small one and she did tell me explicitly that women can usually tell if a guy has a small penis. She never used the term "small penis vibes" or "small penis energy", she simply informed me that "women can tell if a guy has a small penis". It could be possible. I've heard many women describe how they can tell if a guy has his eyes on her body. And there are studies that say women are driven by pheremones and by scent. Well . . . what kind of information is in those chemical cues?

    This is a much easier question to answer. Mine is 4.5 inches. Small by most definitions, though I would say not "tiny" and far from what would be diagnosed as micropenis.
     
  18. ShadyPerson

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    Okay, so she's just delusional. Unless she has actually done a study on how she can predict guys' dick sizes.
     
  19. Correct way to measure a penis to get it erect 100% and push the measuring scale or tape to the pelvic bone and measure the size to the tip of the forehead of penis.
    If it is 4.5 inches i.e. 11.5 cm. The g spot of a vagina is 2-3 knuckles deep which is 2-3 inches. You can always pleasure a women by giving her a g spot orgasm or a clitoral orgasm. However, A spot orgasm might be difficult for you. Not a big deal.
    That woman actually prefer big penis. Get away from her.
    Never underestimate yourself.:)
     
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  20. What is an A spot orgasm? I've never heard of that?

    Also, always good to hear sound advice for accepting reality and working with what you have. Thank you for that :)
     

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