Small penis...

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Fox.english91, May 5, 2020.

  1. Fox.english91

    Fox.english91 Fapstronaut

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    I have a really small penis, and a big small penis humiliation kink, but I don't really know how to tell my gf about it, so I end up masturbating when I want to explore the kink. I don't know what to do.
     
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  2. LeeUK

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    You have a girlfriend, stop being a little pussy and get a grip of your life.

    Do you want to be some little fuck boy or a man? You are mentally ill, accept it and make the necessary changes to get this crap out of your mind.

    Good luck.
     
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  3. Dizzy Lotus

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    Lol. [​IMG] I don't get it. What's your kink? You like small penises? Well, I guess that's nice, considering you've apparently got one yourself... [​IMG]
    Wait, I hope you don't mean that having a small penis should hurt you? [​IMG]
     
  4. Im talking that the humiliation should hurt him, it hurts anybody.
     
  5. Darkestbeforethedawn

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    Lads, relax. Many people in the Nofap community have fetishes involving humiliation.

    @Fox.english91 these are often porn-induced and strengthened by continuing to watch porn. Over time, they can really lead you into situations you don't want to be in. I recommend giving this reboot your best effort and focusing on other things/taking up some new hobbies over the coming months. This will give you the time to understand what you are truly interested in, free from the influence of porn which has a big impact on our brain and what it finds pleasurable.

    You've found nofap, and will be able to explore the benefits of this process. You also have a girlfriend as your partner. Take strength from these positives and feel free to message if you need to.
     
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  6. MixerAwersome

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    hey man,don't be afraid to enjoy with your gf...
    size dosent matter for girls..as for boys "boobs size does not matter"..
    what matters is stamina in bed...if you are able to satisfy her(your gf) she will accept you the way you are..
    so, focus on nofap journey..it will help you build stamina, cures erectile dysfunction and staying away from your regular kind of porn and focusing your energy in something positive will help you forget about your kink.
    stay positive buddy.
     
  7. I feel you. I also have a small penis and I am very into small penis humiliation as well. Sometimes I wish that my girlfriend would tease me about having a small one. If she did, I'm sure I would get super turned on, but she never has. Quite the opposite in fact - she keeps telling me that I have a big one! :rolleyes:

    I get your desire to share this with your gf. I've done so in the past and learned some things along the way, but ultimately I just got more and more into my fantasy and porn addiction. I agree with the advice given here that you need to stay away from porn. It might be possible to explore this with your gf, but porn will only make things worse. If you take this too far, you'll end up craving sexual rejection from girls and you'll end up alone. :(

    I can guarantee you that this fetish will always be there if you go back to it. Why not try giving up porn and masturbation of 30 days. Do that, and try focusing all that sexual energy on your gf. Don't focus on what you want her to do to you, focus on how you can please her. And by that, I mean make good use of your hands and mouth. ;)
     
  8. kevinjeter

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    I have a small dick and I’m so embarrassed. I won’t pull my penis out until I’m hard with a girl during sex. Hard I’m around 5 inches or on good days even bigger but flaccid I’m tiny like an inch
     
  9. That's quite a grower you've got there, 500% bigger when erect! :D

    Similar story here. I've gotten a little better about it over the years, but with about an inch and a half flaccid, its hard not to notice all the other guys in the locker room and feel compelled to cover up. And I'm mortified any time a girl sees me at anything less than half erect.
    I'm a grower like you, but I max out at 4 1/2 inches, so only about a 300% increase.
     
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  10. kevinjeter

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    I feel you man especially being embarrassed in high school got abused because I got a Bj by this girl n she told everyone I was small and other girls agreed
     
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  11. At least you got a BJ out of it!
    I've avoided dating women at work for fear that word would get out.
    But some women just know. I've had a few women tell me that, as if they can tell that you have a small one just by looking at you, or by the way that you act. Of course, not having much of a bulge doesn't help either. Do you think that's why the other girls agreed? Do you think that they already suspected it or had the other girls seen it too?
     
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  12. kevinjeter

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    I think it was because they seen mine as well when I slept with them
     
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  13. Ὀρφεύς

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    It's masochism. You should try to somehow increase serotonin (5-htp, swearing, meditation), stay positive or get bigger self-esteem (exercise). I would recommend analyzing what feelings lie in this fetish (I really doubt that this came because your penis is small, there something is hidden in past). Your penis size doesn't define you.

    If you are really addicted to this though I would highly recommend staying in nofap and try as possible to abstain from addictions and seek to become more positive ( I know it is hard, but it could become worse if your negative thoughts will thrive; just seek it)

    GL my friend.
     
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  14. Fox.english91

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    Thanks for the kind response, you’re right about a reboot. I feel like when I made this account I wasn’t sure whether I really wanted(needed) to do it, but am feeling more certain now. I almost M’d this evening but painted instead. I have a few plans in place for keeping myself busy so I’m feeling hopeful.
     
  15. crazyaf

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    Have they invented something like a boob job yet, but for penis?
     
  16. Fox.english91

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    thanks man, I have bi polar and definitely deal with the depression part... as well as hyper sexuality (among other things) when I’m in the upswing of the disorder.. but when I’m down, I definitely need serotonin haha. I’m working on getting back into working out regularly as well as staying busy with art and other things that make me happy. You’re right about thinking about the underlying things with the kink. I’ll definitely give it some thoughts. I wanted to PMO tonight but got the idea to paint my feelings instead which was an interesting result lol. Anyway, thanks for the support!
     
  17. Fox.english91

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    Lol, yeah they actually have. Not as perfected though
     
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  18. Fox.english91

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    Mines only about 3.5 but honestly, the size hasn’t ever been as issue (I’m not saying people aren’t shitty, maybe I’ve gotten lucky). It seems like as long as you’re willing to put in the work to please your partner, size isn’t going to take away from their pleasure. Plus, I like to think of my dick in its flaccid state is in “travel mode” it’s just more efficient to have it be small haha.
     
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  19. Fox.english91

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    You make some great points, thanks for the positivity. I’m feeling more confident to be able to move forward from the thought processes and kink and just be with me gf as I am. She definitely doesn’t seem bothered by my size, she insists she prefers it, lol. I’ll focus on the reboot and hope for the best.
     
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  20. DrabToLight

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    Compassion? Geez. @Fox.english91 , this is not "advise", it is abuse. You deserve a real answer to your question. Not ridicule and this kind of BS.

    @UnStunned should be ashamed of answer @Fox.english91 this way. @Fox.english91 , your question was seeking help, not abuse. Shame on you @UnStunned

    @Fox.english91 , I am glad that some of the later posts were helpful and not rude.

    I would recommend doing some therapy with a qualified therapist. Just a little might help a great deal. Also, perhaps a physical from an MD. The doctor will most likely assure you that everything is normal.
     

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