Smashing a record together

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by georgy1990, Sep 26, 2019.

  1. georgy1990

    georgy1990 Fapstronaut

    Hello everyone. Just signed up on the site, determined to get rid of all the worthless hours in front of a computer, watching sex on a screen instead of living and enjoying real life, with all the wonderful things one can do.

    My story: it all began at the age of 12 with soft porn movies late night on TV, Emannuele and such. 3 years later, I got introduced to hardcore straight porn and at 23 I descended into -guess what- shemale porn. After that, I delved into sissy training videos, compilations, I spent money on live cam sites chatting with shemales and I even hooked up with one. Al this went under control when I met my current girlfriend, 3 years ago, with only a couple of cam chats from time to time. Recently, as the passion between us started to fade a little, I (instead of mixing things up to bring it back) started hanging out in shemale live cam sites again along with watching straight porn and additionally started listening to FemDom hypnosis videos, which I got addicted to.

    My decision: going to New Year's Day without having watched,listened or masturbated to any erotic content.

    Paying the price: if - for whatever reason- I relapse, I will cancel a trip in a European country I have already arranged.

    Process: I will post here every 1-3 days describing my situtation, strategies that helped me or not, etc.

    If anyone wants to help me smash this record by keeping me accountable, offering some advice or - even better- join the challenge, I would really appreciate it. Have a nice day!
  2. femdomsucks17

    femdomsucks17 Fapstronaut

    all the best can get outta this
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  3. Tiger uppercut!

    Tiger uppercut! NoFap Moderator
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    Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

    Getting Started Guide | How to Use theNoFap Forums | Panic Button | Day Counter | Rebooting Resources | ForumRules | Glossary

    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    You can also take part in one of the manychallenges available. It can be a tremendous help. Challenges

    Also, there are groups you can also join if you wish to do so. You can browse through them here. Groups

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
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  4. rafael33

    rafael33 Fapstronaut

    Good decision.

    Welcome to the Nofap community.
    The NO PMO journey is not easy but worth the effort.
    The community will support you.
  5. BandaManda

    BandaManda Fapstronaut

    Go for it! you can beat this.
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  6. georgy1990

    georgy1990 Fapstronaut

    Thanks for the support, everybody..first day without PM, feeling good and confident that I can make it!
    Last edited: Sep 27, 2019
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  7. Coffee Candy

    Coffee Candy Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)

    Then secondly I just strongly advise you to be active on your profile(as there quite a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.

    People (are beginning to) love communicating in the profilesection..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!

    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
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  8. georgy1990

    georgy1990 Fapstronaut

    3rd day without PM and still going strong. My energy levels are highly increased, even though I haven't slept adequately in the last couple of days (hanging out and then studying). I also just made a small test of will: I was writing code and wanted to ensure that the password you write appears as dots when you register for the first time on a website. The website with the simplest login form I know is a live cam site I used to spend much time in. So I typed the address to check the registration form and then closed it without a problem :) .. Decision is the ultimate power, as Tony Robbins has said. We should keep that in mind when temptation knocks the door!

    (p.s. Coffee Candy, I considered writing a journal but I currently don't have the free time needed to write frequently and to go in such depth :) )
  9. georgy1990

    georgy1990 Fapstronaut

    15 days without PM and I have to say, the energy I have is unprecedented!..One thing I noticed is that I talk with much more passion, especially about the topics I like. I was in a mixed group of people the other day, talking about football, and I caught the look of a girl that knows nothing about sports whatsoever. She looked like she was hanging from my words, even though she had no idea what I was talking about. Probably carried over by the energy I was projecting.

    So, to anyone who may read this, do yourself a favour and get out of the PMO train for good!...You will see immediate changes in yourself and also in your environment.
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  10. thetourist

    thetourist Fapstronaut

    Great to read this update, a testimony that NoFap really works. Keep it up, georgy1990, your resolve is truly awesome.
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  11. georgy1990

    georgy1990 Fapstronaut

    Thanks thetourist, I really appreciate the support! I wish you all the best with your effort
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