So Bored of Life?

Do u love yourself?

 

@gandu_ Seems to me as if you may be a little lonely? Maybe you're ok with you're own company, so don't necessarily feel lonely, but I mean lonely as in not having other people to share passions and interests with? That you workout a lot is great, but anyway you could make it more social? Getting people you like being with, and who like being with you, makes everything seem so much more worthwhile.

I read this article and it really set me thinking about what I like doing and who I like doing it with:

FIND WHAT YOU LOVE AND LET IT KILL YOU

It's by a guy called Mark Manson, who thus far, is the only online writer I subscribe too, I find his work that interesting. He's written a couple excellent books too, so if you like that article and his others, I suggest giving them a go to:

THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING A FUCK: A COUNTERINTUITIVE APPROACH TO LIVING A GOOD LIFE

and

EVERYTHING IS F*CKED: A BOOK ABOUT HOPE

Fingers crossed they kickstart you to do find out what you want to do!

 

@gandu_ Thanks for filling out your story. So if I understand correctly you’re lacking a sense of direction, wondering “What do I do now?” It’s a big question!

I won’t pretend that I know the answer to that one. I’d recommend quitting the weed because mentally that’s just going to make you feel lethargic. I’ve been there too, so know how it feels. A decade spent not really doing much. In combination with beer probably doesn’t help either!

Again, I’d recommend reading some of Mark Manson’s articles because I can’t think of anyone else who will get you thinking about this stuff from a short read that’ll only take you 5-10 minutes. Have a look at the first 10 articles in particular from his Top 20 List:

https://markmanson.net/best-articles

Hope it helps and gets the ball rolling. Keep up with NoFap and good luck. Plenty of people on here to talk to.

 

So your bored, your practicing nofap and working out and that is great one feeds the other by not tossing the sausage or watching porn your desire goes up to release this energy so I am assuming you work out when that happens . Energy is built up in the body from practicing nofap mental and biological a example of one biological benefit is increased testosterone great for working out . Instead of watching Netflix replace it with doing absolutely nothing the natural result you will notice life it self has some newness your brain doesn't know the difference of a movie or real life so in a sense your tricking / stimulating your system into thinking it did something. So trick it back to serve you. There is many more tools besides nofap , nofap has worked the best for me though .

 

Lovely turn of phrase Not seen that one before. Thank you. Brought a little sunshine to a rainy Friday.

 

I made it up especially for gandu I kind of got the idea from a Australian golfer when listening to sports talk radio and he used the phrase your pulling my sausage a spin on your pulling my leg ha ha . Enjoy your day ! Thanks for the compliment .

 

well sleeping is great, i agree hahaha
my opinion is that once u had strong stuff like weed and alcohol, u can't enjoy ordinary things simply to their fullest.. so u are in the right path as u stopped them, my advice is to seek sth that makes u laugh.. for example.. i dunno if u like kids, but they are so funny!!
(and i dunno if what i am saying makes sense lol)