So GF wants to video chat and she keeps sending me pics of herself. |UPDATE 09/03/19|

I reconciled with my ex in my home country and will be returning to America next month. Been back together for 2 weeks now.

GF says she is gonna miss me and is already sending me her selfies and stuff. Nothing too suggestive but just looking at her pics makes me want to do stuff. Plus she has offered to send me her topless pics when I am away in America and when she misses me to make me feel less alone. Plus she’s already practicing video calls and she shows herself to me when we are FaceTiming.

Now I don’t mind all this and I know she’s doing this because she loves me but I’m thinking this could be counter productive to a Hard-Mode Abstinence challenge because Pixel oriented stimulation is a Big NO.

How should I go about this situation? I don’t want it to seem like I don’t want to see her because she’s already insecure about me finding a hot American girl.

Helpful Advice needed and good tips are welcome! Thanks.

 

What should I tell her?

I cannot discuss my Porn problem with her. I come from a very conservative society and she will judge me hard for it.

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Ok I can do this. I’ll tell her that I want her in person and not in pixels.

 

Ok I’ll tell her that it is like porn and I want to avoid digital stuff.

Porn is a totally different concept to Cybersex between consenting adults.

For normal people not addicted to Porn it is totally fine and even a desirable thing I suppose.

 

Any more views on this subject?

 

We broke up for good. Her parents (especially her father) are still stuck in the 19th century and opposed our relationship because of my age (I’m 18 months younger than her) and because of my last name/family origins.

Her parents gave her an ultimatum that it was gonna be either me or them and she decided to obey her dad. She burned me during the break up. I will never forgive her for playing with my feelings and shitting on my emotions again. It is over!

I will be returning to North America soon to start a new life and I’m looking forward to it.

Moral of the story never take back an ex girlfriend who leaves you at least unless the circumstances that made her an ex in the first place have been fixed.

 

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