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So horny and desperate

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by ElevenShots, Feb 7, 2021.

  1. ElevenShots

    ElevenShots New Fapstronaut

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    Why am I so horny and desperate for sex...

    Adding girls out of the blue on fb and gaming them but they sense my desperation so they back away... i just want to have sex with a female!!!
     
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  2. dandausa

    dandausa Fapstronaut

    It's called sex/porn addiction. That's why we're here. Thanks for sharing bro! Really we need to find other things that give us purpose if the only "fun" in our lives is lusting and using pmo or sex then that's all we can think about. Maybe this book would help you? https://learn.covenanteyes.com/hobbies-and-habits/ Just some hobbies and habits you can try to move towards and gain some purpose in life. You got it!
     
  3. Rev2.0

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    That's the crazy/stupid/frustrating thing, isn't it. The more you want women, the more you drive them away. Whereas guys who don't care are drowning in female attention. But that can all be used as strong motivation. Once you can keep your eyes off P and your hand off your D other than essential needs, then you can start addressing your overall mind state of why those things appeal to you. It's too complicated to explain here but almost 100% of the time this "needy" mindset will trace back to low self esteem / confidence. When those start turning around it unlocks all kinds of other good stuff in your life.
     
  4. And this is your Problem bucko.
    Now clean up your room and stop objectifying fellow human beings/disrespecting yourself by putting pussy on a pedestal
     
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  5. p1n1983

    p1n1983 Fapstronaut

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    Woman can spot desperate guys miles away. They also spot easy man tha have sex ofter with multiple woman... guess what? they want this last kind of guys. They prefer to share a succesfull man than having a desperate man all by themselves.

    You are a man, you like woman.. of course you want that! now that you are not fapping you have more desire to do it. If you fap all day I can bet you that you will loose this urges of sex.

    Another important thing is... when you have goals and ambitions in life, you get really busy thinking about it and having sex and woman take a secondary role in your life. Get into hobbies, set goals and keep your mind busy with other stuff. This will make you a better catch for woman and make your desperation vibes go away.
     
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  6. ISOhappiness

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    I’m sorry but you MUST remove all sub-P and that includes FB Gaming and watching almost all TV ect because sub-P is everywhere and it slows your reboot and makes it more challenging. Inadvertently, this will allow you, to meet you LOL hikes, working out, reading, hanging with friends, fixer upper projects whatever but avoid digital life. 90 days
     
  7. The Archangel

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    Maybe go to a brothel or try to find girls online with similar interests.
     
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  8. sam30

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    that will be a relapse then...
     
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  9. Anto764

    Anto764 Fapstronaut

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    I really understand you. Im feeling like you everyday. i've girfriend, but althought I have sex with her this feeling remain. I want do sex with all the girls when im alone i want do pmo..
    You can do all of you want but this feeling never gone. So what we can do? Nothing. Accept the feeling and live with it.
     
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  10. primaljade

    primaljade Fapstronaut

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    This is a great point. I used to do the whole PUA thing, and even when I had a lot of sex in a short timespan I'd use PMO. It is an insatiable desire for sex that's impossible to fulfill. It can lead to destructive behavior in different ways:
    - Coming across as too "thristy", for sex
    - Lowering your standards, for sex (like having sex with toxic, crazy, or unattractive women)
    - Doing riskier things, for sex
    - Doing costlier things, for sex
    - Ignoring life's responsibilities, for sex

    It's like an alternative version of greed, where no amount of money is satisfying enough to relax and live without thinking about getting more.

    Being super horny is natural if you have a lot of hormones going on (and if you haven't had sex in a long time/ever), but beware.
     
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  11. ElevenShots

    ElevenShots New Fapstronaut

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    Sex is hell of a drug...
     
  12. smh_fam

    smh_fam Fapstronaut

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    This, when you're desperate you will overlook serious red flags that the girl is a nutcase.
     
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  14. ryukPLYZ

    ryukPLYZ Fapstronaut

    Okay , so looks like your lacking in communication with girls . So , the thing to do is to make a few female friends and only try to be friends .
    When u think that you have learnt enough about how to talk to women then make ur move.
     

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