I've just been writing in my journal and really want to get other people's opinions on this subject. I have come to realise that PMO has, for a long time, been filling a void of dissatisfaction in my life. I feel like I have been drifting for a while; I have no drive to achieve things, I just feel almost emotionally impotent. I am now caught in a catch 22 - I realise that I want to set goals that I really want to achieve, ones that really get me enthusiastic about achieving them. However, I have absolutely no idea what it is that I actually want to achieve. I thought it would be that I would want more money, but I have been lucky enough to come into a little money recently and frankly, that doesn't fill the void. I just feel like I want to achieve something, but I have no idea what it is I want to achieve or how to go about it. I can't swim and have booked some swimming lessons for September, but how would people, particularly those who have been successful here, go about defining their goals? What did you do and how did you arrive at them?