So yesterday we had PIV. Great, as things have been really awkward and distant. Then she went on night shift. I was at home, alone and awake with chaser effect (only 16 hours post sex) with a head full of fantasy, wood and inability to sleep. She noticed I was awake (via WhatsApp) and asked why……… so I told her I was struggling with chaser effect. She asked what that was and I explained it. She was genuinely interested so I sent the link to the Getting started with Nofap. She read it during her night shift. This morning we talked. About everything. ALL my issues, state of my mind, the hidden M, the Cam watching, Porn, endless hours of edging. Resentment, objectification of random women….the whole lot. She said my entire demeanour had changed in the last week (exactly when I discovered Nofap) and that I was suddenly a much kinder and more thoughtful person to live with. She was entirely supportive, not at all judgemental and is fully on board with support. I feel so lucky to have her. I will make this work. I have to She deserves nothing less. One major hurdle overcome.