I'm looking for some advice on here from SOs as PAs see it from a different angle. My ex SO is still living in my house and said that the only reason she is leaving is that she's not enough for me. How do I convince her she is? A little back story: we've been together around 3.5 years and I've had PIED right through this relationship due to finding porn at an early age and never giving it up for a real relationship. I blamed my ex wife and every other little thing for my erection problems until my SO found this site, got me here and enlightened me. Since Jan I have abstained from P and M but had a few trip ups with performance and putting my foot in my mouth with suggestions. My SO had a terrible journey with weight loss, depression and other mental health worries which really sent her to rock bottom, she has turned the corner and feeling better but not straight forward. I asked my SO about what she thought of me and she said that it's only as a lover i fail. I wish this wasn't the case but the facts don't lie. I am free from P and M and healthy. My mental health (anxiety and stress) affects performance and sets doubts with my SO. Is there any substance with me trying to convince her and her daughter who gets on very well with me to stay before she finally moves out? Whenever I ask how she is she says heartbroken and trying to keep busy. I've hurt her so much and want to build a great relationship and make up for my wrongs. Thank you for reading.