I posted in my journal but thought I would post here as well to get some additional input. So I finally told my wife last night about my goal to quit porn altogether and it didn't go as I expected it to. It has never been a great secret in our relationship that I used porn, but the extent of the use and the types of porn that I got into were never discussed. Having told her that I was trying to quit last night she surprised me by asking me why. I wasn't ready for that and sort of fumbled my response, I talked about not wanting to be a user of porn as our kids started to deal with the issues that porn brings (over the next couple of years) also highlighted some of the issues with the porn industry - we watched a documentary on it earlier in the year so she sort of understood this part. However she then went on to say that she didn't think I should quit if I didn't want to, I tried to explain that I really did want to. She said that she doesn't object to all porn and would be open to exploring with me acceptable porn... this has completely thrown me. Has anybody experienced similar, or have any sage advice?