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Sober September 2021: Committment Thread

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Moderation Team, Aug 31, 2021.

  1. Moderation Team

    Moderation Team Announcement Account Staff Member

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    The purpose of this thread is to provide Rebooters with a place to share their commitment to abstaining from particular sexual behaviors throughout the entire month. Although it is strongly recommended to make a public commitment, posting in this thread is not required for participation in a reboot.

    New to reboot? Here are some suggestions:
    1. Learn about porn addiction, excessive masturbation, and abstaining from PMO (a process called "reboot" or "rebooting"). Our free Getting Started guide that is advertised everywhere is a great option.
    2. Decide if abstaining from PMO is something that you really want. If you don't buy into the process 100%, you'll probably not make it through the month. If you have decided that you would like to participate, proceed to step three.
    3. Sign up for this month by replying to this thread.
    4. Consider setting up a PMO-tracking day counter to monitor your progress.
    5. Create a Journal Thread and share your progress periodically, preferably on a daily basis. Not only does this help you stay accountable, it documents valuable anecdotal evidence that will ultimately help other people going through similar situations in the future.
    6. Ask questions and get support by posting on NoFap. Help others, too, if you are able to.
    7. Get an accountability partner.
    Would you like to participate? If so, please reply to this thread with the following information.
    • Are you not going to allow yourself to masturbate? View porn? Orgasm whatsoever? Not allowing any outlet for sexual release is dubbed "hard mode". For a full list of parameters, see our Rebooting 101 page.
    • How long do you want this challenge to last? By default it is one month, but 90 days is recommended for rebooting. You can't know how long it will take to "rewire" your brain, it widely varies due to individual circumstances. Some people require a year or longer to regain sexual function.
    • What are your goals?
    • Why are you doing this?
    Coming in after this month has already started?

    Don't panic - it is not a problem. Users sign up for NoFap's rebooting events all months long. Just follow the instructions above and jump in at any time by replying to this thread.
     
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  2. _Imperial0x47

    _Imperial0x47 Fapstronaut

    I'm in

    I am not going to allow myself to masturbate.

    I want this challenge to last for my whole lifetime. But my current goal is 120 days.

    My goals are to get a normal life, get rid of my social anxiety and get a social life, get mental peace, gain the ability to work hard with full focus and make my parents proud of me.

    Well, my goals say it all.
     
    Last edited: Sep 1, 2021
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  3. fredisthebes

    fredisthebes Fapstronaut

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    I'm in.

    Rules for me are: no porn or masturbation. I'm allowing myself occasional sex with my wife, if it happens, which it may not.

    Initial target is 30 days i.e. the month of September. I understand that it will take longer than this to 'reset'. I havent decided what my future relationship with masturbation will be, if any. But i certainly want to be lifelong free from porn. That's my ultimate goal here.
     
  4. Revanthegrey

    Revanthegrey Fapstronaut

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    I'm in
    Rules: No P , no m , no o
    I want to quit this habit
    My goal : Make nofap as a lifestyle
    Target:Unlimited
     
  5. Im in.
    No pmo & alcohol.
    Intial target is 30. Because i never crossed these many days so i cant have a big target.
    My goal is to get confident and Stand on my own. I want to destroy loneliness from my life.
     
  6. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    I want to join this challenge.
    My goal is to not cosume PMO for 90 days, this is the first month.
    Today is my day 2.
    My big goals are to feel self confident, reduce anxiety, increase body muscles, reduce hairfall.
     
  7. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    Today is day 3. This is a reminder for myself.
     
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  8. Revanthegrey

    Revanthegrey Fapstronaut

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    Day 3 on the challenge
     
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  9. obsolete_23

    obsolete_23 Fapstronaut

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    I'll give it another go. Day 1.
     
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  10. Revanthegrey

    Revanthegrey Fapstronaut

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    day 5 on the challenge
     
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  11. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    Today is Day 5. I am going good ✌.
     
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  12. PaFappa the Rapper

    PaFappa the Rapper Fapstronaut

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    I fucked up so far this month, but I am a new man. September 6th on, let's do this.
     
  13. Revanthegrey

    Revanthegrey Fapstronaut

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    day 6 on the challenge
     
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  14. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    Day 6 on the challenge. I believe I can do it.
     
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  15. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    Day 7 on the challenge.
     
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  16. Revanthegrey

    Revanthegrey Fapstronaut

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  17. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    1st Week Completed. I am happy for myself. Day 8 on the way.
     
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  18. eccentric06

    eccentric06 Fapstronaut

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    Day 9 on the challenge. I am busy and I do not think about it now. I like being on this website daily to keep my self accountable and inspired also.
     
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  19. Day 8.
     
    Last edited by a moderator: Sep 10, 2021
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  20. gmuligan

    gmuligan New Fapstronaut

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    I'm starting today, jumping in late, but I need to take action. I want to take back control of my life and it's going to start right now.
     

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