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Soft fantasizing about erotic/sex allowed? No porn fantasies!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Trinere, Sep 27, 2019.

SOFT EROTIC / SEX - FANTASIZING OKAY?

Poll closed Oct 27, 2019.

  1. OKAY - BECAUSE THIS IS HEALTHY FANTASIZING STUFF

    3 vote(s)
    75.0%

  2. NOT OKAY - WILL NOT BE HELPFUL FOR THE REBOOT

    1 vote(s)
    25.0%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Sep 27, 2019 #1
    Trinere

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    I know this has been discussed many times and everybody says: do not fantasize...
    I order to reboot and heal I understand that fantasizing is not good and should be avioded. OK, but what about when you wake up in the morning and think about a girl lying next you. You imagine
    her naked and touching her tits and softly licking her nice pussy and eventually having ordinary sex.
    You don't imagine any hardcore porn sex scenes at this moment doing with her...just the light sex / erotic fantasies.
    What is your opinion on it?
     
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    Trinere, Sep 27, 2019
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  2. Sep 27, 2019 #2
    nfuser123012

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    It is normal to have those thoughts but not to linger on them for too long as they might cause you to relapse. Whenever those thoughts come, ask yourself. Will these thoughts help with what I have to do now?
     
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  3. Sep 27, 2019 #3
    Trinere

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    Let's say you can keep control of your dick in this moment. You don't touch your dick and don't even think about relapsing.
     
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  4. Sep 27, 2019 #4
    nfuser123012

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    Then what's the point of having those thoughts? It's not going to help with anything you have to do in your life. Recognize and let go.
     
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  5. Sep 27, 2019 #5
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    It is impossible not to have fantasies
     
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  6. Sep 27, 2019 #6
    Fallacious D

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    If you are questioning whether it is right or wrong, you already know that it is wrong. That's part of the addiction - when you indulge in those fantasies you are basically telling yourself: "I still need this." Fantasizing is the quickest way to trigger yourself into doing something irrational with your body. You can force your body to not masturbate, but it's a lot harder to steer your mind away from harmful thoughts. It's like you're watching porn in your mind - you are still getting that surge of pleasure. So don't do it.
     
    Fallacious D, Sep 27, 2019
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