Some concerns about the most famous "superpower" of reboot

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by jakise6810, Oct 16, 2020.

  1. jakise6810

    jakise6810 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys! Its my first post in this community so far but im on that track for last few years. And i have some questions about "female attraction" comes from nofap.

    So im into this girl from school for a while and she is been acting pretty nice and positive to me. Whenever i approach to her, she makes me act more than i normally planned to do. You get what im saying ;)

    Dont get me wrong, im not on nofap for purely female attraction but i really want to know how that famous female attraction effect of nofap works? I dont have any problems with flirting to this girl right know but im just wondering if i can guarantee it or even make her crave for me. Talking from experience, i was occasionally doing two weeks long streaks a few years ago and girls were literally eye fucking and hitting me in every possible oppourtunity.

    And im asking if i can recreate this effect. If so, how? Asking because I was literally doing nothing to improve myself those days, no workout, no socialising or anything, straight opposite of present day.


    Thanks in advance :)
     
  2. p1n1983

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    Is just a boost in confidence, girls really like that.
    But if a girl is not attracted to you, no matter how many years in NoFap you are or how confident or rich you are or how good you are at flirting, she is just not interested in you. So... if a girl is hitting you in every possible way they can, is attracted to you, if not.. then she is not.

    This girl you are talking about it seems that is not doing this.. you are the one hitting on her repetitively but not making a move. Is she getting out or her way to talk to you or you are the one making all the effort?
    Once you figure that out is going to be really easy for you to determinate witch girl is into you and the once that not and are a time wasters.
     
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  3. jakise6810

    jakise6810 New Fapstronaut

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    I forgot to say, im living in an Asian country where dynamics are much more different and girls are way more reluctant about making a move. That means its pretty extraordinary for a girl to make a move towards boys unless its her boyfriend. And this girl im talking about is silent as hell and rarely showing any friendly signs to people around. And that gives me a lot of hope. Also i noticed several times that she was trying to be around me when i saw her, not specifically searching for me but not holding herself back for walking home with me or chit chatting a bit. I cant pick her up for going to school together anymore though, since her father got paranoid and started dropping her himself everyday lol. And i take those as signals since i never seen her behaving in such way to anybody else. (Please dont think im a weirdo, as i said things are pretty different here compared to western countries)

    So i dont know if im being a bit optimistic or there is really something going on.
     
  4. p1n1983

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    Woman are woman, no matter the place she is born. If a girl is interested in you she is going to put herself in your orbit to make it easy for you to seduce her.. and ask her out. There are woman that are more bold and woman that are a little more shy but at the end of the day a woman is going to make it clean she like you so you can make a move on her. Maybe she is into you but you are still no making a move on her. More time you chit chat with her you are going to end up in friendzone. Don't be the nice guy.. remember, they always come last.
     
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  5. TrueSaiyan

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    I can relate to this attraction that has actually happened to me. About a year and a half ago I was going on two week streaks about 12 - 16 days. I didn't get eyed up or hit on but some woman would openly talk to me and start a conversation. Then I felt some bursts to go and talk to my co workers that were attractive. But I believe the effect is real due to your experiences. I also feel I am a pretty attractive guy I just maybe lost my charm which you may possibly have my friend. I'd say your pheromone are up there.

    The effect is still there as long as you feel it just embrace it and feel it threw out your body and mind. As far from the woman at school I would go all out for her. If she's very positive when she sees you and makes you act out more then what you plan. That's definitely a tall tale sign she likes you! I had a similar experience 2 years ago with a co worker. It didn't end well though as I learned she wasn't all what I thought. But good luck to you and stay consistent with this current woman.
     
  6. SPIRITUSS

    SPIRITUSS Fapstronaut

    I find it sad to rely on noFap to attract girls. Real self-love, real self-confidence comes from within. It is independent of all circumstances. Whoever really loves himself for who he is, who looks at himself in the mirror and can say "I fucking love this guy" doesn't feel the need to practice noFap.

    Practicing nofap hoping to have "superpowers" is stupid. Because by doing that, you don't deal with the problem at the source.

    I learned how to talk to girls, by talking to girls. Just like you learn to be good at piano by practicing piano.
    I've talked to thousands of girls. On the street, in stores, groups of girls, mothers with their daughters. Also in nightclubs without drinking alcohol.

    I tried nofap too and personally it didn't change anything. Whether I jerk off or not, I will always want to go and talk to attractive girls. But more importantly, I don't question my self-confidence and who I am based on external elements.
    Whether you jerk off or not, you are who you are. And the real work sould be done at the source. Not by practicing nofap hoping to have super powers and be superior to others.

    This is my opinion
     

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