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Some general thoughts on my situation?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by 12twelve, Feb 19, 2019.

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  1. 12twelve

    12twelve New Fapstronaut

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    Hey Guys, So I discovered NoFap about 4 months ago after starting to get some glaring issues in my sex life.

    I have(had) deathgrip pretty bad in the past, didn't know about it until this site tho. From about 13 until 35. In general it never impeded things that much. Worst cases I would end up with DE or inability to O. Then the DE go much worse and starting having issues with ED. I talked with doctor and got the little blue pills which worked, but still had issues with DE. It started effecting fapping to where I was getting worse with the death grip.

    I found out about this and realized there were prolly issues related to this. So I stopped fapping, stopped watching porn. Talked with my wife about it who was fully supportive. I have made it on average about a month without relapsing, while still having normal sex with my wife (weekly-ish, usually between 3-7 days). However the thing bothering me is that I am still having issues with ED, like just cant get things going some times. But the DE is gone, quite the opposite, its like a minute now. Which is frustrating in its own right.

    Beyond these issues. I had a stroke about 2 years ago. Freak thing, and I recovered really well. I know I was having some issues before but I wanted to see if anyone has the same kind of issues and I am still within the reboot process. Or if maybe something else (related to the stroke, or possibly the back issues I am having) is effecting things and I need to look at actually using the little blue pills again because something is actually wrong.

    I have talked with my doctor on it, he didn't really know what to think. When I explained all of this he was kind of surprised and didn't know what to think. Said it could be either one. So I wanted to reach out to this community since people are familiar with the problems that come with death grip and fapping if this is something they experienced as well.

    Any thoughts?
     
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  2. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome to NoFap. You won't find people here who will be shocked or disbelieve you-- they will completely understand. I think that's going to be very refreshing for you. :)
     
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  3. Ash.k

    Ash.k Fapstronaut

    Thanks for sharing man, one month is amazing !
     
  4. ImpureHuman

    ImpureHuman Fapstronaut

    Welcome, Good to know that SO is fully supportive. That helps a lot. Let's reboot and reverse the problem. Be patient and trust the process.
     

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