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Somewhere around 5 months on nofap

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by A Bottle of Slivovitz, Oct 20, 2021.

  1. Oct 20, 2021 #1
    A Bottle of Slivovitz

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    Hello warriors!
    I hope you're all fine?

    So, I am somewhere around 5 months on nofap and it was an incredible journey. I fell that I am a diferent man now. Even my friend told me I was a different person than I was last year. So I think this is a sucess story for me. :)

    But now I don't feel well for a few days.
    I've had a girlfriend for about two months now and I'm really having fun with her.

    The only problem is that we tried to have sex and my dick couldn't get up. Again ... I was very disappointed. I thought that after a few months without a PMO, everything would work like a Swiss watch. But it's not.
    I had an orgasm with her, but not through sex. My dick only gets up when she rubs against me and as soon as she gets away he falls. When we are in bed together, I just think about whether he will get up and whether I will be able to keep him like that. I can't relax.
    Sometimes when I think about her and what I would do to her then my dick rises. We cuddled once, I ran my lips over her lips and cheeks and then he got up without a problem. That's why I'm scared and confused now. I don't know what to do. I told her that I was overdoing it with porn and that is why I have this problem now and her reaction to it was surprisingly good.

    Should I go to HardMode for a few more months or continue like this and try to get used to her touch?

    I will not only brag and whine here but I want to be of some use to this community.
    Somewhere here, someone has already recommended this book, which helped me a lot to get rid of porn. I want to thank that person.

    The book is called The-SPAM REMOVED (spam code #001) - REPORT TO MODERATION-way-to-quit-porn.


    I hope this book will help you as it helped me. I'm not one hundred percent cured, but at least I don't spend my time watching porn anymore.

    I am glad that we are all here trying to do something nice with our lives and to improve them as much as possible.
    I believe we will succeed in that. :)
     
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  2. Oct 20, 2021 #2
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    Kepp NoFap man u are doing well i have been addicted deep for 3 years and it is about 1 year i am doing nofap i read a lot of stories i heard a lot weird things i never heard that you dick don’t get up i think for that go and see a doctor
     
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  3. Oct 20, 2021 #3
    ANewFocus

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    What helped about the book?
    Healing the body and brain from PMO can take a long time. Our anatomy gets conditioned to respond in certain ways to certain conditions and stimuli.
     
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  4. Oct 20, 2021 #4
    E31

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    Understandable and probably a cause of your problem.
    I don't know how excessive your use was, but it could very well be, that you still suffer from PIED, after all 5 months is great(congrats btw!) but still not that much time in the grand scheme of things.
    Add that with every mans worst fear, not getting it up, and your in for a psychological dilemma.
    Take it easy, be open about your fears with your girl. Since your dick generally still works I wouldn't be concerned about it.
    It really sounds like its just the performance anxiety.
    Try to take it with humor the next time you're in bed with her, maybe it works maybe not yet, you still can give her great pleasure, just focus on that then.
    In the meantime, movement, sports, nutrition, take it easy with the slivovitz ;) you know the drill.

    All the best!
     
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  5. Oct 20, 2021 #5
    Cyberpunk3000

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    I'd definitely recommend you take the blue pill. It will ease your anxiety and doubt..and it will boost your confidence.
     
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  6. Oct 21, 2021 #6
    Selfdiscovery

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    5 months without PMO is great achievement.Believe in it.Same kind of problem is face by me as well.I have chosen to spend more time with my life partner and train my brain what actual intimacy and bonding means with a real person.Its exactly opposite what we have taught so far doing years of PMO.And I'm sure if one remains 100% without PM then things will keep improving.Also,getting sexual performance and libido is the last thing which gets to normal in this journey.So hold on keep going.

    I'm sure after a while ,things will ease and become normal.Coz the real problem is in head not in your member down there.Train youself with real person.Its necessary to those who trapped in this addiction quite early and without any prior sexual experience.

    Best wishes....
     
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  7. Oct 22, 2021 #7
    Beekind

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    What if it takes a year to cure your ED?
    Stopping at thd 11th month won't do it.
     
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  8. Oct 25, 2021 #8
    A Bottle of Slivovitz

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    I had sex! :)

    You guys are awesome! Thanks for all the advice and support.


    It helped that it doesn't take 90 days for us to say we don't watch porn. We can do that right after watching.
    The author even advises you to watch porn one more time and to firmly decide not to watch porn again.
    I also think it helps that the author only mentions the bad side of porn throughout the book (because only the bad side exists) and that we don't lose anything when we stop watching. I hope this makes some sense.
     
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  9. Oct 25, 2021 #9
    Selfdiscovery

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    Is there any improvement in your ED in these 5 days? It seems you experienced something better than earlier.
    Share it what worked for you .It will be great for the betterment and hope for many recoverers here.
     
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