So I found out about 4 months ago that my partner of 1 year kept watching porn and I asked him about it. He said he’s fine and not addicted. I kept asking him because it was very clear of his addiction and he eventually said he’s researched and wants to try nofap. He tried it a couple months ago fell off and basically went off nofap. 12 days ago he started again and messages me (as we don’t live together) saying he thinks he hit a point where he doesn’t have any sexual urges. At the weekend we spent time together and he didn’t want to do anything of that nature which is fine. So last night on day 12 he messages me and tells me in the middle of the night that he’s having urges and he feels really sexual and that he couldn’t help but watch P. Now we’ve talked about this and I said to him that I have self confidence and body image issues which are highly effected if he’s watching some super skinny girls doing whatever they’re doing online. I want to support him because I love him and he’s an amazing person but I’m finding it so hard to be with him or say anything to him when he relapses cause I understand he can’t help it but it just gets me. I don’t know what to reply to him at all but I’m so upset I don’t think he understands how I feel about it all after me trying to explain. I support him but he doesn’t understand the effect it has on me. If I didn’t want to do anything sexual with him then a day later say that I had to watch P and PM cause I couldn’t help it and felt too sexual. Then he wouldn’t be happy if we were the other way around. I just feel like I’m at a dead end. It really upsets me personally and hurts our relationship everytime it happens it just feels like he’s not trying enough. I don’t see why he doesn’t block the sites or find something else to do. I don’t know. Any suggestions???