"Stage Fright"

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by JasonC, Nov 14, 2014.

  1. JasonC

    JasonC Fapstronaut

    Anyone think that stage fright, as in the inability to pee in a public john, is a side effect of PMO addiction?

    Somehow over the last several years it's become a problem for me. If I'm standing at a urinal and someone walks in, I can't relax and let it go until they leave.

    I know I didn't use to be this way. I'm hoping the increased confidence I'm starting to feel will fix this as it's pretty darn annoying.

    Who'd of thought that super powers might include the ability to pee under pressure?
  2. anthrope

    anthrope Fapstronaut

    Jason - I know the exact feeling. I've had it too many times. I am not sure how related it is to PMO addiction. The key though is the penis is the main exit for pee, and the main source for stimulation in PMO. So the odds are that they are related.

    In my case I've simply had to enter my body fully, being aware of my entire body, and breathing properly, to override this habitual clenching of the entire urinary system. It takes some measure of body awareness to do this. Just my two cents.
  3. TeddyBear

    TeddyBear Guest

    I used to be in the same boat as you. But one day I just stopped caring. Now I can pee in a urinal without a privacy wall in between, which is quite a step forward for me. I think it's partly due to some weird subconscious comparison guys fear when standing next to another man ... that somehow the guy next to him will be comparing his willy to yours when in reality he just doesn't friggin' care. Society has really pushed the idea of "penis size" as something of supreme importance when in reality it's irrelevant to our day to day lives.

    It took me years to get over pissing anxiety so I don't expect you to get better overnight. It takes practice and learning to genuinely not care what anyone else thinks ... or more accurately ... what you THINK other people are thinking. They have just as must interest in YOU peeing as you do them.

    This is all just theories, of course.

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