Starting a 90 day challenge today. Anyone wanna join?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Jul 14, 2017.

  1. RBYG_flag

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  2. vinilzord2.0

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    Joining because it's never too late!

    Btw how do I set up a counter?
     
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  3. Fokes

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    I am
    I am in i hope we can make it
     
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  4. RBYG_flag

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    On the menu bar on top, click on " Update Day Counter" and set the date you started without PMO!
     
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  5. Jodo Kus

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    I relapsed.
    ...But I stand up now, I'm ready to try again.
    I shouldn't celebrate in advance or make big words about a resolution. I have to wait for the day to come...
     
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  6. I relapsed two days back after a 6 day streak of no PMO. I will be starting Day 2 in a few hours, I pray that I am able to meet my 90 day challenge this time.

    I had a semi-wet dream today and I say semi because I did not ejaculate and can only remember certain images from the dream. It's actually annoying that I did not O from it because now it might stay bottled up in me - but whatever. Ima make it through this time, I can live without PMO. To be more clear, I CAN'T live with PMO.
     
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  7. Update: More than 10 days now and I feel fine for the moment. Yesterday was also a good day. I feel like I can do this but I'm still gonna take it day by day...
     
  8. seekEmbers

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    I'll join too.
    Hope I'm not gonna fail at my first challenge.
     
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    Hello guys, I've been 60 days without PMO and I want to ask you something. After I finish my reboot entirely can I start masturbating again but without porn(just my fantasy not something extreme) for let's say once a week or this will be bad?
     
  10. Jodo Kus

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    Don't be afraid of it. When it comes into your consciousness it is a voluntary decision to let it go. Anyway, your mind will continue to shell you with such pictures for some time, no matter what.
    But I think it is a limiting believe when we think something will stay unsolved when we don't O. Of course it feels bad to stop right in the middle of a prolonged sex fantasy, especially when we're just about to come. But it doesn't matter. The feeling will vain, the thoughts will be replaced by others and our mood will change.

    Let's learn to love withdrawal.
     
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  11. feelingood

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    Hi all!
    Here i am, first day! Let's do this
     
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  12. Relapsed again... resetting back to day 0.
     
  13. Jodo Kus

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    laziness and mild depression
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    binged
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    caved
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    still laying on the ground :(
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    Now preparing for the next 10 days in hard mode
    It shall be 10 days of hard labor, then one day of rest.

    first things first
     
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  14. Sohaib

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    10 days since I started but i'll join too.
     
  15. feelingood

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    Day 2
    I spend the day trekking in the mountains, ez no prob :)
     
  16. Cable81

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    Just starting today, Im definitely gonna join you. Just gotta stay busy....
     
  17. I just relapsed for the third time, smh. One of the things I hate most about relapses is that they tend to result in further relapses, I joined NoFap about a week and a half ago and signed up for the 90 day challenge of no PMO. I made it to 6 days and then ended up relapsing. After that I have just felt lethargic and very demotivated, which has contributed to two more relapses. I know I should have no excuse, but I really don't know what to do when I just feel like crap. I'm gonna make sure I do what I can to prevent feeling like this, such as fixing my sleeping and eating patterns and staying productive throughout the day. I really wish I could just leave this behind me - it is the hardest thing to leave due to the addiction and ease of access. The number of times I have tried to quit is probably in the 100s but I need to ensure that I now leave it for good. Sorry for the long paragraph haha
     
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  19. It can be defeated

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    Hello John despite your relapses I want to ask you some questions in which you have to honestly answer.
    Did you relapse again?

    Did you have boundaries or actions you were going to take if you were triggered?

    Where you checking in with anyone like someone who helps you with you accountability?

    Were you being proactive about your recovery? For example, being aware of the places,media you are exposed yourself too, thoughts you were having?

    Did you have a self care plan. A support network of people actually understand your problem.

    Were you managing stressful situations that came to you?


    Think about these questions. Now, you will always be relapsing if you don't change your environment after any relapse. Trust me I am learning it myself.
     
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  20. Forgot to write an update yesterday but nothing special was going on then anyway. Update: Now more than 12 days in and I feel good. No uncontrollable urges these last few days and hoping that I can get to 90 days this time.
     
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