Starting a group mid20-mid30 yr olds, daily check-ins for motivated/active/studying/working men

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by hrmn51230, Dec 1, 2018.

  1. Catondo\

    Catondo\ Fapstronaut

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    Hi all,
    I have an addiction for porn, or for masturbation, I don't know.
    I tried multiple times to quit, and I failed every time.

    I want to try an accountability group/friend as last resort, because I don't know what to do anymore.
    My purpose is to never look to porn on purpose ever again, and to masturbate the absolute minimum better if never again (need to be realistic on this)
    I am dead serious on this, I am willing to do whatever it takes and if I can help someone it would be great.

    Just tell me what I have to do, this is my first (and last) time joining a group.

    More info on me:
    30yo, single, working on IT, already quitted smoking, very good physique.
     
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  2. Tradamus

    Tradamus Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys

    I’m 25, working, and I’m school. Is it alright if join up. Ive made it to six months before but starting over.
     
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  3. Virchewes

    Virchewes Fapstronaut

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    Re: latenight urges or any urges. I've been addicted for more than half of my life now and it's the first time in my life I feel like I'm making progress. How? Pledged $1,000 on Stikk that I won't do P for 6 months. I made the commitment easier by allowing to do M. But the trick is that P usually leads to M and not the other way around. I KNOW I can't do P because I'm not giving away $1,000 to some people that I dislike (National Rifle Association), so that thought is not even an option. So far works well and I've stayed away from either P, M or O. I'm on day 20 and 3 days away from the longest streak in my entire life.
    For M: if late-night runs are not your thing - do burpees. They're awful. I used to limit myself to 2/month by introducing a 100-burpee in a row penalty. Worked well for a year. No need to leave the house or even the room.
     
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  4. Virchewes

    Virchewes Fapstronaut

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    my friend, is there a link or author that you can share?
     
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  5. Red_Spirit

    Red_Spirit New Fapstronaut

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    Hi all! I know this might be too late but this group just seems quite a formal one which is whqt I need... I'm a 32 yo male who has been trying to quit PMO for a few years now, I have improved quite a lot, but I just need help to take that last step and quit definitely.

    Hope you can still accept me!
     
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  6. getting better

    getting better Fapstronaut

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    More the merrier. Good luck everyone!

    On another note, a friend brought up NoFap to me on a call out of the blue this past week. Part of the problem with overcoming this challenge is keeping it in the dark. I'm not recommending sending out an email to everyone in your contact list that you are now on a NoFap journey, but I do think it's helpful to open up about it to a couple close friends. The challenge becomes easier when we have others to share the burden.

    Good luck for this week and the new year!
     
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  7. ForsakenSpirit

    ForsakenSpirit New Fapstronaut

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    Hello! 25 year old male trying for nearly a year. Longest streak 26 days. Need haaalp D: Hope you are still adding people! Thanks!
     
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  8. emmanuel Edwards

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    Hello, 23 y/o west coast male here. I'm a virgin and currently in grad school. PMO has taken about 9 years of my life. I tried to quit last year but my average streak is sadly 10 days. Please I'll love to join the Kik group if it's still possible.
     
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  9. Latinmixedboy

    Latinmixedboy Fapstronaut

    Count me in
     
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  10. Hadamard

    Hadamard New Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    I am a 23 years old male graduate student working in the east coast (US). PMO has taken about 10 years of my life and my longest streak has been 10 days and I want to start again (PM for January). Is this the right subgroup for AP ?
     
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  11. Hadamard

    Hadamard New Fapstronaut

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    Hi Emmanuel,

    I am in the same boat at you. Graduate student, 23 years old and struggling from PMO for the past 10 years. We can do it !!
     
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  12. emmanuel Edwards

    emmanuel Edwards Fapstronaut

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    Please how do we join the Kik group?
     
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  13. Hadamard

    Hadamard New Fapstronaut

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    I do not know yet. I am also looking out on the thread to see how to join the KIK group. Please let me know if you have success.
     
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  14. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  15. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  16. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. So glad you're getting started young! Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  17. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  18. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  19. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. Very glad to hear you're done with smoking. One vice at a time. You're doing great bud. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     
  20. hrmn51230

    hrmn51230 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, sorry for the late response. I just got back into the country. I agree about opening up to close friends. I did that with some of the closest people in my life who I never could have imagined being addicted to PMO. I found out they are having problems just as intense as mine. Message me on kik and I'll add you to the group. Welcome! Username: hrmn51230
     

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