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Starting again - new commitment

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Wanttosucceed, Jun 7, 2019.

  1. Yesterday I had enough stressful day and I was SO tempted to look at porn and I almost did...crazy how strong the urges were when I was feeling low and stressed but somehow I managed to resist and now I am on day 5 and feeling better...I did self pleasure though but for me this is much more about not looking at porn than occasionally self pleasuring.

    Stay strong comrades and post here every day!
     
  2. Still regretting the relapse. I don‘t know how I feel..
     
  3. Great to hear everyone's stories of success and failure but at least we are trying and acknowledging that porn has a negative impact on our lives, as does too much masturbation....whatever you feel keep posting here and describing your experiences. This is my longest streak in ages and I intend to continue!!
     
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  4. Let go of it...it's in the past and nothing can be done now so why regret...power is always in the present moment. Forgive yourself and start again!
     
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  5. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    I am in day 6 NoFap. This day i have several times being tempted terribly. My mind whispered: "Let masturbate for a while, it is pleasure. If you don't, you 'll miss the fun and your life 'll be boring, meaningless" These times, I really want to PMO but I didn't (perhaps this bad habit is now weaken).
    Today is my bad day. I had an exam and I performed badly. My course has ended so the chance to flirt the girl that I like is over. But the only happiness for me is that I achieve one more day no porn.
     
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  6. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    Regret is poison. Every situations happen to your life are opportunities including the fact that we addict to porn.
     
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  7. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    This morning, i fixed my laptop. There was an urgency that i couldn't handle with it. I relapsed. I have to start again. I feel very shamed and guilty now. Hope that one day i am no longer hooked on PMO.
     
  8. Not to worry that it happened...just start again and get a new run going and your confidence will go up!
     
  9. I have achieved another day without porn and feeling stronger every day! Keep posting to let me know how you're getting on!!

    I love myself, I love myself, I love myself and I don't need porn and my life is much better without it and I ahve a lot more time for healing work and learning how to be the best version of myself!!
     
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  10. Today, I felt pretty good. Much better then the days before.
     
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  11. Hi Guys,

    Good group you've formed here.

    I've been struggling all my life ever since I started masturbating / porn watching. 14 Years now. I've tried NoFap several times but always relapse early on. I am determined this time will be different, I am sick and tired of no career, no friends, avoiding my family/life.

    Hopefully we can all support each other through this process.
     
  12. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    You are welcome. We are here to support each other.
     
  13. Good to hear!!
     
  14. Yes we are here to support! Keep posting every day and we can help maintain our streaks

    I HATE porn and the way it takes hold of my life but I have now been without for 9 days and I have had very few urges and I think this group and being able to talk about it daily and praise ourselves and each other for our streaks really helps! Let's not forget porn objectifies women, is abusive and doesn't serve our highest interests.

    Much love to all on here xx
     
  15. Once I quit porn I began to look at people - mainly men - a bit differently. And, while I may be wrong, I do tend to think, "Hmmm, that guy is probably a porn watcher, like big time." My therapist had me pegged for this guy a long time ago, but waited to acknowledge this until I finally revealed it to her. So while I agree it is wrong to judge a book by its cover, one of the motivations to quit porn is that you may be subtly giving hints that you are a daily PMO guy, and women tend to avoid them like the plague.
     
  16. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    Day 2nd nofap.
    Today, i stay at home with my mom and dad. I am preparing for an exam but i ain't able to focus on my task totally. I didn't think about PMO so much. There was an sexual urge this afternoon but it won't last long.
    However, my mind wondered why this girl refused not to go out with me. Does she interest in me or not??? (She is the girl that i like and i am flirting her) Now i remind myself as usual:
    • I have commited 30 days nofap.
    • These are what trigger me to PMO: Stay at home alone, too much spared time, stress, depression, thoughts, imaginations about sex, stuffs contain sexual scenes, hot bae on stress,...
    • PMO fatigues my focus ability, decrease my memory makes me get bad result in school
    • If i get over this challenge i will: Live with reality, believe in myself, perform meteortic result in school, have a great career, train a strong will power.
    Hope that i can keep my promise.
     
    Last edited: Jun 16, 2019
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  17. Chaugiveupporn

    Chaugiveupporn Fapstronaut

    Yes, it 's wrong to judge a book by its cover. Getting rid of PMO is like rebooting its content.
     
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  18. RebootIan

    RebootIan Fapstronaut

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    Covenant Eyes along with the Matt Dobshutz Porn Free Radio Podcast are the two most important tools that have led to my success with this thing. Can't recommend them enough. If anyone wants to know more. Feel free to DM me.
     
  19. Today was a good day. Had much energy again.
     
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  20. Man, I had a similar kind of day, and I suspect we were not the only ones. Don't overthink it, just get back in the game. It's good that you have someone to confide in. It takes strength to do that.
     
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