I have been single for over a year and used porn daily during that time. I met someone else online and decided to meet. Coffee went well so we scheduled a date that went physical and I semi was able to perform. We met up again with the intention of sex and I could not perform this time at all. It's been a week without porn and I feel more attracted to my date now but haven't gotten hard. Is trying to date while I go through the reboot bad?