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Starting because of a bad date

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Gregtootall, Feb 24, 2017.

  1. Feb 24, 2017 #1
    Gregtootall

    Gregtootall Fapstronaut

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    I have been single for over a year and used porn daily during that time. I met someone else online and decided to meet. Coffee went well so we scheduled a date that went physical and I semi was able to perform. We met up again with the intention of sex and I could not perform this time at all. It's been a week without porn and I feel more attracted to my date now but haven't gotten hard. Is trying to date while I go through the reboot bad?
     
    Gregtootall, Feb 24, 2017
    Gregtootall, Feb 24, 2017
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  2. Feb 28, 2017 #2
    Harderthansatan

    Harderthansatan Guest

    Silly question dude but do you definitely fancy her? I know you say you do but do you?

    Reason I say this was that about 2.5 years ago now I was having casual sex with a lovely looking girl who had legs for days. Her attractiveness was hard to dispute. However she was a bit odd or seemed that way to me. I found that I was having trouble getting hard for her and finishing the job.

    I ended it not too long after. Was odd. Something onside of me just wasn't feeling it.
     
    Harderthansatan, Feb 28, 2017
    Harderthansatan, Feb 28, 2017
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  3. Feb 28, 2017 #3
    HopefulChristian

    HopefulChristian Guest

    Hi and Welcome to NoFap! Whether or not to date during a reboot is a personal choice. If you look at other threads in this forum, you will see that you are not the only person wondering this! I say if you think it will interfere with your PMO goals, you should remain single. Abstaining further during the rebooting process should also help with PIED. Good luck!
     
    HopefulChristian, Feb 28, 2017
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