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Starting from midnight tonight! No fetish porn, NoFap - I'm scared I will fail.

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  1. Mar 24, 2020 #1
    temptation123

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    I can't help myself. I've been fapping over interracial cuckold and sissy femdom pornography again, again and again. I also have been distracted by pictures of women wearing lingerie and/or high heeled boots on Instagram.
    It's exciting, arousing, but some of these fetishes are all kinds of messed up. Afterwards, my body feels uncomfortable and I feel depressed until the next morning, sometimes even the day after. I have even bought a chastity device but it reminds me of sex/kink too much.

    It feels embarrassing to admit this, but therapeutic I can share this with someone. There's no way I can tell family or friends. Even if just one person reads this, it feels a relief and less scary.

    What has I brought on this confession? I've come back from travelling, to back home where I can get away with fapping and relentless porn. I have not managed to find a job, and now my country has been made to stay inside because of the coronavirus. Free time, privacy and no social life is the perfect time for an excessive masturbatio season. I try and plan my day and boom, before I know it, I'm looking at bbc cuckold videos again. Hours can pass, my day is eventually a write off and I feel awful. My life becomes a wreck because of my addictions.

    So I came across this site again after 5 years. I glanced over the forums and didn't take it seriously then. I really want to do at least 40 days (and 40 nights - bit like the movie) of no fapping, no porn, nothing sexual.

    I really, really hope I can do this as it might change my life. If you have any ideas or support you can give me, I'd be very very grateful. I'm worried I will fail and slide into temptation (I've tried before but failed, many times!)
     
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  2. Mar 24, 2020 #2
    Wolfgirl

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    I’m so glad you came to the forum. This is a great place to get all kinds of help to quit. Often finding someone irl can be helpful, but if that’s not something you can or want to do, there’s also a forum devoted to accountability partners. In addition I feel that staying motivated to quit and remembering why you want to quit can be half the battle. It’s that mindset, if you believe you can do something then you will be able to do it. So many people were where you are and have made progress in their own battle. And I know you can make progress on yours. Things do get a little easier, like it’s easier to ignore the urges. Just stay motivated to stop. Try to keep yourself busy if you can. When you make progress, do not feel discouraged if you relapse, it happens to all of us, challenge yourself to make it longer next time. Overtime you will learn your triggers and it will become easier to resist. Try your best! Good luck! You have so much support here!
     
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  3. Mar 25, 2020 #3
    The Free Bird

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    Hi and welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.

    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍​
     
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