Starting hard mode need support and advice

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Klark Cent, Apr 7, 2020.

  1. Klark Cent

    Klark Cent Fapstronaut

    Hello everyone,

    I’m new here and about to embark on a 90 day hard mode reset. I’m interested in any advice and information you may have to share with someone like myself.

    Never quit for more than 14 days in the past six years. Enough is enough. I’ve tried to quit many times and failed.

    I’m looking for assistance to make this time different. Anything helps, also looking for a AP if anyone else is interested.
    Last edited: Apr 7, 2020
  2. Welcome to nofap dear friend :) one thing i would suggest is have a good reason why you want to quit, it will be a lot easier to deal with the urges and temptations, and educated yourself on this topic so you know what to expect and be ready for the worst. I would suggest you read this if you haven't already done so.
  3. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community : )
    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!

    Allow me to go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:
    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button / Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ Accountability groups (new!) / About NoFap/ Support NoFap

    Here is just some advice:

    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

    Secondly I advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then begin posting frequent status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement.
    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.
    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support one another in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate section for you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!

    P.S here is the Accountability Partner section:
  4. The Free Bird

    The Free Bird Fapstronaut

    Hi, welcome to the community

    I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

    Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

    It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.

    This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

    ֍ You got this my friend ֍
  5. Kligor

    Kligor Fapstronaut

    Hi buddy and welcome to forum!
    My advice is to stay away from psubs too(erotic stories,sexy pictures and all triggers) that will decrease urges.Try cold showers,go to gym,avoid negative people,try meditation,replace PMO with some hobbies.
    Stay strong buddy!
  6. krisztouch

    krisztouch Fapstronaut

    Welcome brother. Start your journey with meditation and try to do those things you always wanted to do but never get the chance to do it. And let's fight it together
  7. Hello there... :)
    Welcome to the community!
    My best wishes for your success :emoji_white_check_mark:
    The Free Bird and Klark Cent like this.

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