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Stay Vigilant on Valentines DAY friends...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by NoneForMeThanks, Feb 13, 2016.

  1. NoneForMeThanks

    NoneForMeThanks Fapstronaut

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    Hi fapstronauts,

    Tomorrow is Valentine's day. We all know that. BUT, Please be aware of the fact that it may be especially enticing for some of us to relapse tomorrow. Whether we dont have our own partners, we feel lonely, we remember negative memories about past valentines days or past partners etc. DONT GET SUCKED INTO IT. Do not let yourself use any of these things as excuses to relapse. We must stay vigilant especially now!!! So, if you are like me, and do not have a partner for valentines day, this is what I propose we do:

    1)Treat tomorrow like a normal day.
    2) stay off social media/tv/internet to avoid seeing all the valentines day schenanigans from everyone.
    3)First thing in the morning go and work out.
    4) come home, cold shower, good meal.
    5) get out of the house!!! go to the library, go outside and hang out in the park
    6)Get a group of your other single friends and go out to lunch/dinner/ whatever

    The goal here is to stay busy, and give no extra attention or thought to tomorrow. Especially in regards to negative emotions or triggers.

    I worry about us as a collective group, being particularly vulnerable tomorrow. Stay weary fapstronauts, stay on your toes, and dont let a silly holiday ruin your streak or your future. ITS NOT WORTH IT!!

    -NONE
     
  2. 945Gucci

    945Gucci New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for this. I really agree with taking cold showers.
     

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