How rude of you. That's not a very nice thing to say to a stranger. This is a place of healing, a place where we are meant to support one another. Our comments in this place should lift each other up, not put each other down. He offered you some constructive feedback for your own benefit, and you respond by insulting him. What a constructive piece of criticism. This comment says much more about you than it does about @Inqonyama . This comment shows that you're rude, that you respond to criticism with insults rather than civil conversation, that you are willing to call someone a 'sissy boy' when you don't even know them, and that you don't respect the safe, judgment-free, supportive nature of this community. (EDIT: Also, you ought to learn the difference between "your" and "you're") If you don't have time to read a comment that isn't even a page long, then that speaks volumes of your patience and humility. What's going on in your life? Where's the anger coming from, man? Why are you putting other people down? I would advise you to do the same. If you think it's okay to insult a random stranger, then I think you have much to learn.