Straight guy, is it normal to be attracted to other males?

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  1. FapFapFapNoMore

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    Straight guy, is it normal to be attracted to other males? I have been straight all my life...but I just discovered myself...to be attracted to handsome males too...with a nice body (abs, chest, etc), I've ignored these feelings...because I was raised to like girls and my dad is a homophobic...but...I am attracted to guys too! I haven't done anything with a guy (just a kiss) and didn't like it, I thought it was gross because the guy was going "all in"...that was years ago. but now...I am so confused with my sexuality. I found myself fantasizing about being with a guy.. Is this normal"?
     
  2. did you watch any gay or shemale porn if so it is more then likely porn induced. i started to think about guys to until i started NoFap
     
  3. FapFapFapNoMore

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    No...I like lesbian porn mostly...but When I see a guy on the street....I do get attracted.
     
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  4. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    I will notice that other males are attractive and even enjoy some same sex role play but am not gay.
     
  6. Catronaut

    Catronaut New Fapstronaut

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    A bisexual is someone who likes both men and women.
     
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  7. juand009

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    Me too mate, I fantasize about being with guys too but never done anything. Maybe it's just curiosity, even scientists don't really understand the complexities of human sexuality. Is normal, don't worry
     
  8. Dake1963

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  9. No, it's not. It's not normal in the slightest.
     
  10. Try and stop fantasising, whether it's about women or men. It can lead you to relapse pretty quickly. If you notice yourself doing it, stop.

    As for your question, it may well be your addicted mind trying to get a "fix" from anything it can. Can PMO warp your mind so that you become temporarily attracted to things you normally wouldn't? Yes it can.

    Keep doing NoFap and the thoughts will probably go away.
     
  11. If you notice handsome guys on street not only fantisize about sex while Ming then its a high chance that you are at least bi. If porn causes something like that people usually use it on while Ming and outside not checking other males. Though there is nothing wrong being bi its even better, you have more options ;). Keep doing nofap and you will see what you like with a clear mind, good luck!
     
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  12. juand009

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    Well sure! I'll stay on NoFap.. I will stay strong and see what I like. Thanks mate!
     
  13. Might be best to stay on nofap like @KanekiKen mentioned... to determine for yourself with a clear mind as your progress. I'm in the same dilemma myself and believe those feelings for same sex attraction is brought on by the porn I've watched previously.
     
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  14. @Velvet_Rope97 yeah give yourself some time to discover your real you
     
  15. FapFapFapNoMore

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    No, I didn't
     
  16. Luke1996

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    Mate, I’m the exact same! I have always classed myself as strait but I’m attracted to other males I have always tried to push it away and pretend to myself but I can’t deny I’m attracted to both genders.

    Its confusing and complex because I’m only attracted to strait males not feminine acting ones, I also have a homophobic family dad, brother cousins that would make me scared of exploring myself out of fear of being rejected, even though I accept it myself I don’t think I could ever explore it even though Im only 21.

    It doesn’t help that I don’t have a high mad sex drive an my older cousins always expect me to have loads of girls round because they say I’m so good looking and they think automatically I could get any girl I wanted. For me if I ever get horny I just fap and can get of on either women or men equally making me prefer that then the going out and getting the real thing unless it actually comes on a plate to me like party, ect.

    How complex is that, suppose I just see the beauty in everybody, Glad I’m not the only one, good to see your post Haha.
     
  17. According to a totally straight mate of mine, that is totally normal: all straight guys fantasize with what it would feel like to suck a cock, with what it would feel like to have a cock up their ass. That doesn't mean that they actually want to try either of the two or that they would like it if they did. Science suggests that sexual orientation in the human species is fluid, meaning that without cultural and/or religious indoctrination, every human is capable of feeling sexually attracted to males and to females.
     
  18. Ready to be healthy

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    I think this is a bit misleading.

    There is a difference between curiosity about what it would be like and actual sexual desire for it to happen.

    I do agree however that sexuality is fluid and men seems to struggle with that.
     
  19. Ready to be healthy

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    Yes it's just as normal for a guy to want to be with another guy if he is bisexual or gay- there is nothing wrong with being attracted to members of the same sex and you should not feel any shame. Same sex relationships/sexual activity exists in over 450 species- don't worry :)

    It seems your fear about what your homophobic Dad may say or do has got you worried (understandably) The kiss you didn't like, may have been because the guy was to heavy handed with you- guys can be like that.
     
  20. I'm in the same situation as you. I don't know why I am attracted only to straight guys and not to femenine ones. For six years I thought that I was gay or bisexual, but now after abstaining from gay porn, I've realized that I was only being HOCD. This 'Gay-thing' was porn induced and now I am realising it can be fixed.

    Maybe it is normal for a straight guy to appreciate to other good-looking men such as when we appreciate the beauty of a painting or the beauty of an apple. What I think is not normal is to fantazise with 'how does it feels to suck someomes cocks' or things like that.
    After two weeks of no porn, I have turned again –after six years– to like more girls than guys. I am very proud of that and very happy to know it is possible to come back to the straight-side. :)
     

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