Straight guy likes butt plugs. Is it repulsive for women?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Freedom_from_PMO, Apr 25, 2019.

  1. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I have sensitive back door and I like plugs. They also makes me more hard and help me keep erection for longer.

    Is this a problematic behaviour at all?

    Ladies, would be it a problem for you if your partner would use a plug?
     
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  2. locomia

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    what is a plug?
     
  3. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Pointy toy that is placed in anus.
     
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  4. AlexWillDoIt

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    It’s not. We guys have this wonderful organ called prostate, so... maybe not every woman understands, but many are turned on by it.
     
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  5. GaryMayor

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    Using toys is not problem at all, but can sounds weird. One problem I can see there is if you really have problem to maintain erection without something in your ass.
     
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  6. Freedom_from_PMO

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    No I have normal erection, simply sensations there made me harder quicker and for longer time.
     
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  7. InnerFaith

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    there are dominant women who like that idea, but if it brings the worst in you, who are you doing a favor ?
     
  8. Freedom_from_PMO

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    No, not anymore. Yes I had sissy period, but it was more complex than just liking anal sensations. Sissification is gone, but this is not. I think i I can use this. THAT dominant women (who like pegging) are in fact super rare and if you don't want join bdsm/fetish community (which is bad idea) probablity that you will find one is rather low. I don't have a need for pleasure there now, this is just alternative I can use or not. I will stay from triggering it for reboot time. Maybe I will just stop liking entire idea.
     
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  9. Randy

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    In my experience, some women are turned on by it, some are indifferent, and others are disgusted.
     
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  10. Overcame

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    It's anal sex...Nothing's gonna stop you now from going all the way with a guy. I think you should stop.
     
  11. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I posted this fes days ago. Now I am better. Feeding fetishes is absolutely not worth it. First days of reboot were worst.
     
  12. ultrafabber

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    I'm not a woman but this is not a normal behavior, it's emasculating to say the least. Women will lose respect for you if you do it. Some dominant women might be interested but you don't want that kind of women in your life, they are nothing but trouble and drama.
     
  13. plzrlzme

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    First off, not a woman in sight in this thread. Second off, why should you not be allowed to stick something in your own ass during sex? Women will enjoy having sex with you if you rock their world. If putting a plug in your ass dries up her lake, why would you continue to pursue a relationship?

    Jeez, some of you guys make me laugh. Who taught you about sex, your grandmas?

    I still remember my first college girlfriend. She insisted we take showers. Then she insisted that I let her give me a massage. After I was all clean, relaxed, and oily, she put her hand between her legs and buried her tongue in my ass. Does that make me gay? Do you think I lost her respect?

    Lmfao.
     
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  14. Freedom_from_PMO

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    You haven't read thread very carefully.
     
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  15. plzrlzme

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    Sounds like me.
     
  16. plzrlzme

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    Oh, I see. Actually, I did see what you wrote. I just think you've bought into what some of these jackwads are saying. Are you really going to go your whole life with an empty butthole because it scares you how much you enjoy it? This website isn't about the evil of orgasm, it is about ending our addiction to pornography and masturbation. You can still wear a plug when you bone. You can even be bisexual if you want. Just don't, you know, call in sick to work so can shove things up your butt. That would be backsliding.
     
  17. Freedom_from_PMO

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    You know, we are at porn recovery forum after all and some activities might be unnecessary triggering for porn induced fetishes that we really don't want to have. For someone something might be ok, for someone else might be damaging. I decided I'll stay away from plugs, because I really don't want sissification to come back.

    I don't know how I will react to reintoroduction of anal. There is another guy with sissy fetish and he does crossdressing and that clearly feeds that fetish. There are women even women who like that. But afaik very dominant women are rather a minority.

    And I am not afraid of anal orgasm or something. We are nor sexually healthy here, I don't want old bad habits to come back.
     
  18. fapequalsdeath

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    prostate massage has been deemed healthy by some medical professionals even, preventing prostate cancer etc. IMHO, IF you are REBOOTED and you have a partner that's willing it's completely fine. until then... stay away from it!
     
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  19. plzrlzme

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    I know a woman who enjoys pegging men. They are out there. Also, I mean, it's not exactly hard to determine who is interested in stuff like that if you talk about it. I've dated several women who would have done it if that was something that interested me. But I understand about triggers and backsliding, so I apologize if I am causing you confusion on your path to being a better you.
     
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  20. plzrlzme

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    Ah. You're 24. I see. So, my advice to you is just to realize that people actually like honesty if you own it with self-confidence that doesn't seem forced. Keep it simple. Most of the people in this section could either get what they want or get over their fetishes if they stopped treating it like a dirty, embarrassing secret.

    I once watched a girlfriend pee, for example, because I was curious and I wasn't all creepy when I asked.

    If the women you date or hang out with know you like pegging, you are eventually going to end up getting pegged. That kind of thing has a way of working out if you just own it without letting it own you
     
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