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Straight guy with gay thoughts?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nfam, Jul 19, 2017.

  1. nfam

    nfam Fapstronaut

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    So this is my second journey to 90 days no PMO (I've done it once before), and I've been having some pretty crazy sexual fantasies lately. I have never been gay or attracted to men, but in the past day or two I've been having a lot of gay thoughts bouncing around in my head. Is this normal? I have a feeling it's just happening because I have random periods where I'm incredibly horny.

    What do you guys do if this happens?
     
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  2. flyjoy

    flyjoy Fapstronaut

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    It will Go away
     
  3. You're not a straight guy with gay thoughts, you're an addict with addict thoughts. All you need to do is recognize these thoughts as part of your addiction and then brush them off and continue on your recovery journey.
     
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  4. noonoon

    noonoon Fapstronaut

    My theory on this is that for some guys men are more accessible. Gay men are far more promiscuous than women (in general) and so it's easier for an average guy to get together with a gay dude if really horny.

    When i was a teenager i'd hump a couch when horny enough. Didn't make me a couch-sexual. Or i'd use a massager to masturbate. Doesn't mean i was physically attracted to the device.

    I rather see it in those terms. It's an available outlet for your sex-mania and therefore you're thinking about it.
     
  5. I think you may be on to something.
     
  6. chicagoboi839

    chicagoboi839 Fapstronaut

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    Doesn't mean you're gay, look up HOCD.
     
  7. You just phrased this in the best way I have ever heard. Thank you!!
     
  8. Sofasexual or the ultra taboo Sectionalsexual. Haha.
     
  9. fl.boricua.92

    fl.boricua.92 Fapstronaut

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    It might just be HOCD. I don't have your mind, so I can't say for sure.

    I've had HOCD for years, so I know what I'm talking about when I say
    it can be very, very annoying and even anxiety-inducing. I would have
    intrusive thoughts about gay things I see on social media; I would PMO
    in order to get rid of those unwanted thoughts; and, sometimes a guy at work
    would remind me of a female I'm attracted to, lol.

    All these are just annoying and don't really mean anything (except maybe that I need Zoloft :p).
     
  10. Drew140

    Drew140 Guest

    I have same sex thoughts and I'm straight. I tend to enjoy role play and I have fantasized about giving men prostate exams as a doctor or cavity searches as a prison guard. No penetrative intercourse or oral sex.
     
  11. LoyalKnight

    LoyalKnight Fapstronaut

    http://drlwilson.com/Articles/MASTURBATION.htm

    13. Masturbation tends to make one more attracted to homosexual acts. This is not helpful.

    One of the countless effects of masturbation. It will go away if you abstain from P and M (O only with a partner in regulation).
     
  12. yes, I know what you mean, I am strait, but I also have gay thoughts. in reality I would never go down on a man. I also like looking at pictures of the male parts. I don't know why. I guess I always wanted to touch some one
    that is just the addiction talking. knows hes addicted. I am in the same boat, in reality, I would never do it. only in my mind.
     
  13. but masturbating feels so good . :mad::mad::mad::mad:
     
  14. I neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeedddddddddddddddddddddddddddddd tttttttttooooooooooooooooo ssstttooooopppppppp craigs list!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  15. If you think about it, masturbation is a same sex act in its own way.
     
  16. ^ That is ridiculous! :eek: Here is another unfounded statements:

    "Circumcise all male children. This seems to reduce the tendency for masturbation later on in life. The ancient Hebrews used this method and it still works very well."

    Who is this phoney Dr Wilson?
     
  17. xedger

    xedger Guest

    Indeed. There is some right old crap being bandied about here these days.
     
  18. xedger

    xedger Guest

    And, btw, I can say with 100% certainty (as I have direct experience of the matter, although I was not given any choice) that circumcising a boy doesn't have any effect on his later masturbation habits. That is why I am here.

    I am of the view that mutliating children's genitals cannot possibly be acceptable.
     
  19. You couldn't be more right @xedger. What can be more natural than... well, nature? I wish this cruel child mutilation could be banned. If a person, aged 18+ wants to have their body surgically altered, that is their choice. No one else should take it away from them. I am eternally grateful to my mum and dad that they respected me, even as a baby and let me choose. Needless to say, my choice was that you cannot improve on nature. I am proudly uncircumcised - no scar half way down my cock thank you very much!
     
  20. i thought that most guys are circumcised coz it is better when they have sex?
     

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