Strange fetish for flexibility

newlifelover · May 10, 2019

Sorry for my bad english.
Iam a 20 years old boy.
The earliest memmories of my fetish that i can remember is like when i was 10 or 12 years old.at first i used to browse for flexible pictures of girls such as yoga gymnastics etc. I didn't used to masturbate at that time since that was unknown to me.all i had was pleasure watching those pics and short videos.
As i grew up my fetish also grown to 1)contortion
2)partner stretch
3)forced stretch and assisted contortion
By the age of 16 or 17 i started to masturbate.
The second phase of my fetsh was more aggressive.lt grew up to be
1)mixed wrestling in which the female were forcefully subjected to flexible wrestling submissions such as camel clutch, Boston crab,torture rack,spaddle stretch etc
2)forced stretch in which the female is bended to extreme positions painfully.
My fetish also spread to shibari,flexible bondage,gymnast porn, choking out girls etc etc...
I realised that its really hard for me to masturbate for a real girl other than my fetish.I cant masturbate for real sex scene only for this fetish.
I know this fetish is some kind of dangerous and not possible in real life.Iam addicted to this fetish since i stared it a long time back.i was masturbating for this atleast 2 times a day.and i decided to do nofap from 6/05/2019.It is very hard and i dont know how long i can continue.

Is there someone here with this kind of fetish???
Can some one help me out.I really want to get rid of this fetish and lead normal sex life

Deleted Account · May 10, 2019

You are not alone in this. Welcome to the community.

newlifelover · May 12, 2019

Freddiefox said: ↑

You are not alone in this. Welcome to the community.
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Thanks brother

Nanni · Oct 17, 2019

In all my fetishes I've got also yours, in a certain way. But let me tell you something that can be helpful for you, for me and for everybody else.

I never had a complete reboot on nofap because I always relapsed or edged after max 14 days, but now I'm more determined. Anyway, as other people say, after a complete (90 days) reboot you should be able to understand which fetishes come from porn and which one doesn't. So accept my suggestion: don't think about getting rid of a certain fetish. Rather think about abstaining as most as possible (put your mandatory streak to 90 days) and if you notice that some of your fetishes are still there, accept yourself with them.

newlifelover · Apr 23, 2020

Nanni said: ↑

In all my fetishes I've got also yours, in a certain way. But let me tell you something that can be helpful for you, for me and for everybody else.

I never had a complete reboot on nofap because I always relapsed or edged after max 14 days, but now I'm more determined. Anyway, as other people say, after a complete (90 days) reboot you should be able to understand which fetishes come from porn and which one doesn't. So accept my suggestion: don't think about getting rid of a certain fetish. Rather think about abstaining as most as possible (put your mandatory streak to 90 days) and if you notice that some of your fetishes are still there, accept yourself with them.
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I am confused about accepting the fetish. does that mean i can't get rid of my strange fetish?

Deleted Account · Apr 23, 2020

Hello there...
Welcome to the community!

Deleted Account · Apr 23, 2020

newlifelover said: ↑

I am confused about accepting the fetish. does that mean i can't get rid of my strange fetish?
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Your mind is a powerful tool... You can use it to create the life you want to. So you can definitely cure your strange fetish if you really want to put in the efforts.

Deleted Account · Apr 26, 2020

You should post about your fetish in “Problematic Sexual Behaviors” or sift through to see if you find anyone withthe same fetish as yours. Good luck!

Deleted Account · Jun 3, 2021

newlifelover said: ↑

Sorry for my bad english.
Iam a 20 years old boy.
The earliest memmories of my fetish that i can remember is like when i was 10 or 12 years old.at first i used to browse for flexible pictures of girls such as yoga gymnastics etc. I didn't used to masturbate at that time since that was unknown to me.all i had was pleasure watching those pics and short videos.
As i grew up my fetish also grown to 1)contortion
2)partner stretch
3)forced stretch and assisted contortion
By the age of 16 or 17 i started to masturbate.
The second phase of my fetsh was more aggressive.lt grew up to be
1)mixed wrestling in which the female were forcefully subjected to flexible wrestling submissions such as camel clutch, Boston crab,torture rack,spaddle stretch etc
2)forced stretch in which the female is bended to extreme positions painfully.
My fetish also spread to shibari,flexible bondage,gymnast porn, choking out girls etc etc...
I realised that its really hard for me to masturbate for a real girl other than my fetish.I cant masturbate for real sex scene only for this fetish.
I know this fetish is some kind of dangerous and not possible in real life.Iam addicted to this fetish since i stared it a long time back.i was masturbating for this atleast 2 times a day.and i decided to do nofap from 6/05/2019.It is very hard and i dont know how long i can continue.

Is there someone here with this kind of fetish???
Can some one help me out.I really want to get rid of this fetish and lead normal sex life
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You are not alone my brother. I am exactly the same and it is as if you took the words right out of my mouth. I cannot say it any better.

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