Streak lost? LDR - Phone sex

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Yesterday, my girlfriend(whom I haven't seen in more than a month) and I spoke on the phone. Basically, seeing how much she enjoyed me describing what I'd to to her, I became super horny.

HOWEVER, I did not masturbate at all, despite having a massive boner. Unfortunately, this didn't prevent me from a little having precum in my boxers, which leads me to my concern. Does this count as a relapse, or does it not?
 
She knows and appreciates it. Basically, I made this phone sex thing about her pleasure. Getting horny myself was inevitable though...
 
I suggest being careful. I used to do something of the same category and now that I've reached 3 months of absence, I realize that it was a bad move because it had the risk of me relapsing.
 
abelbebop said:
So, I shouldn't consider it a relapse?
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It's not a relapse but you're not exactly safe either. Stay on your guard and be careful. You might slip either today or tomorrow. Try not to do said activity to ensure your safety during your reboot.
 
TheStranger said:
It's not a relapse but you're not exactly safe either. Stay on your guard and be careful. You might slip either today or tomorrow. Try not to do said activity to ensure your safety during your reboot.
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Alright. Thanks, man, I'll be careful.
 
I believe phone sex is absolutely fine as long as you don’t relapse. I myself have actively been sexting and having phone sex with my girlfriend who I don’t meet on daily basis whilst being on my no pmo journey and I never did touch my dick once despite doing all of that.
As long as you don’t relapse it is absolutely fine
 
abelbebop said:
Yesterday, my girlfriend(whom I haven't seen in more than a month) and I spoke on the phone. Basically, seeing how much she enjoyed me describing what I'd to to her, I became super horny.

HOWEVER, I did not masturbate at all, despite having a massive boner. Unfortunately, this didn't prevent me from a little having precum in my boxers, which leads me to my concern. Does this count as a relapse, or does it not?
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Nothing wrong with feeling horny bruh. As long you don't watch porn, you're alright.
 
Finally some guys with some sense…
For me phone sex it sorta a slip… you loose some days like a relapse but it nothing like a ACTUAL relapse… I think an important defining factor is that you guys keep talking almost as if you had actual sex, or rather try to recreate the feeling of sex a closely as you can… then it is very little like a relapse…
But for your own sake, the following days: Stay on your gaurd!
 
But isnt sexchat more like a p-sub?
Its like getting hard to digital data(voice) whereas she’s not with you physically.
Besides its like setting fire and getting closer to it.
 
To me it mostly depends on what type of connection you have… but yes phone sex will damage your streak, however it is not as bad as porn, IF it is with someone whom express geniune emotion for you… if you there for pleasure sake, then yes it is essentially the same as P.

No matter where you stand on phone sex, I think all fapstronauts can agree on that you should move on from it, or at least be on your guard the coming days/week, because as I said your streak has taken damage…

What do I mean by “taken damage”?
Keep in mind: If you surpassed or were at 14 days, not all of it may be gone yet…
You still habe reserv days of healing from last streak. Take care of it and don’t waist ut on further relapses. That is just unnecessary still of time anyway! :)


Remember: Let each relapse make you stronger then before by learning something from it!


For me I wasn’t strong enough to decline a girl I knew offering me phone sex. But now that I have done it, it feels just like I checked a box and it would be unnecessary to do it again…
 
Mission_I'm_possible said:
To me it mostly depends on what type of connection you have… but yes phone sex will damage your streak, however it is not as bad as porn, IF it is with someone whom express geniune emotion for you… if you there for pleasure sake, then yes it is essentially the same as P.

No matter where you stand on phone sex, I think all fapstronauts can agree on that you should move on from it, or at least be on your guard the coming days/week, because as I said your streak has taken damage…

What do I mean by “taken damage”?
Keep in mind: If you surpassed or were at 14 days, not all of it may be gone yet…
You still habe reserv days of healing from last streak. Take care of it and don’t waist ut on further relapses. That is just unnecessary still of time anyway! :)


Remember: Let each relapse make you stronger then before by learning something from it!


For me I wasn’t strong enough to decline a girl I knew offering me phone sex. But now that I have done it, it feels just like I checked a box and it would be unnecessary to do it again…
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Good stuff my bro
 
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