Stress at work due to NoFap? Help..

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Triple M, Mar 2, 2021.

  1. Triple M

    Triple M Fapstronaut

    Hi friends,

    I am being abstaining from PM for last 15 days..
    I have noticed that for the last 4 days I feel more stressed at work. I don't know whether the work is really hard or it is normal. It feels really bad... But I am thinking NoFap for long time may be the reason for this stress.. because I was watching porn and mastrubating before every two days..

    It's may be my mind confusing me for again go to porn addiction. I don't know.. please help me..
    What should I do??.
     
  2. PMO relieves great stress. Nofap suppresses that stress and keeps it in. You gotta find ways to vent your stress without doing PMO. Or you can try mastrubating in moderation.
     
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  3. Triple M

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    Thanks bro..
    That's my plan. I planned to mastrubate once in a month.. but that will be in future after some 100 days of PMO..
    I have to find another way to withstand this stress..
     
  4. What does your religion say about this ?
     
  5. They're both a sin. However, if one is extremely sexually aroused, masturbation unlocks, or so does some scholars think. I don't think that so I'll be doing this the hard way.
     
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  6. I'm muslim too, from Turkey. Also Salaam brother. I know like you said, masturbation is only allowed if the person is out of control. But when I look it on the internet, I also see many wrong words of Arabic guys. I guess it doesn't say anything about it in the scripture. If two ejeculation in a day felt me like shit, why three ejeculation in a week is considered as good ? It looks sin to me too.
     
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  7. وعليكم السلام
    It's ultimately both haram. It's best not to. The best course of action is to have less sins to carry.
     
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  8. ThePeakWae

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    Your work was always stressing, you just ignored it, think about PM as being on drugs, they numb your senses and perception to the realities around you, happened to me too, right now I'm in a tough spot in regards to finishing a thesis due to this, but it's better for work in the sense that you'll be more disciplined and waste less time with PM distractions.
     
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  9. Triple M

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    Yes. Bro. absolutely..
    thanks
     
  10. dancingwithyou

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    Pal that`s totally fine thing happening you. You have to endure. Eat sweets in direst situation. Drink coffee. But never FANTASIZE, NEVER WATCH PORN. If you can`t hold on your conquest, that you feel you can`t go on any longer and will relapse any minute, just fap with opened eyes without sexy dreaming. You`ll get past this and eventually you will feel much better. But only if you`ll abstain from everything arousal (except real physical contact with your partner of course!). Otherwise feel free to expect "superpowers" for month`s and never get them.
     
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  11. Triple M

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    Thanks bro...
     
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  12. theMotivator

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    Don't do once a month MO, please. You will just stay addicted, i fell in this trap too, and couldn't get out for 3 years. Exit it, for good, and in the end it will benefit you big time.
     
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  13. ThePeakWae

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    In moderation too, Coffee and sweets are also drugs.
     
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  14. ThePeakWae

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    Yeah once you enter relapse zone, you'll meet a wall, especially if your previous nofap streak was high, I couldnt get back to 14 days from months after the 1st relapse, now I'm at 15 days, it's the time to streak the highest possibly dont even think about going back to it, or you wont get to reach your previous streak, trust me it happened to me.
     
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  15. Triple M

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    Ok. Bro..
    How about semen retention for 2 years for an adult before marriage?. Is it good for body?.
    I am thinking if I kept my body without releasing semen so long, it may cause any issue. Because now I am in a stage to get married and so on..
     
  16. theMotivator

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    I am almost 24 and single, and I haven't released on purpose since I was 20, and I don't notice any health issues so far. The only time I release is accidental nocturnals. Usually, it's 0 - 3 times a month.
     
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  17. greatvortex

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    Your body will know when it needs to get rid of excess semen (wet dreams). Please don't worry.
     
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  18. Triple M

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    Fine..
    Can you explain me what is accidental nocturnals?? ;)
     
  19. Triple M

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    Yeah. Good Idea..
    But I think I am getting wet dreams on porn imagination while sleeping.. may be these type of imagination won't come after several years without watching porn..
     
  20. theMotivator

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    Accidental nocturnal emissions (i don't want them, but i just get them) or wet dream, but I usually don't have any dream related to P, just emission.
     
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