So I've joined NoFap about 2 months ago. I started it because I have trouble cumming in my sex life (delayed ejaculation). I used to take 2h or so total, after 1 and half+ I'd have to start M cos my partners either get sore, or tired from multiple orgasms or even bored (non-spoken, but I can sense it). Then I spend 20 or so mins with M to finish. I keep things entertaining by mixing it up with BJs, going down on them, bit of 69, telling them to M me, etc. It helps a lot that I have a relationship now which is mostly based on frequent sex. I've managed to bring porn under control and M a lot less frequently (from around 5 days per week, sometimes more than once in a day, down to about twice per week when we don't see each other for 5+ days straight). I don't really use porn videos any more and try to M from pictures only so as to increase my brain's ability to fantasise again rather than being spoon fed a fantasy. I'm enjoying sex a lot more and I find my partner a lot more attractive after quitting porn, but I am still not finding enough stimulation to cum from sex, anal or BJs. I still take around 1h and a bit to cum now and still need to finish through M every time. Managed a couple of times to finish while she was masturbating me, but most of the time it takes forever and her arms get tired, at which point it ruins it for me as I don't want her to be in pain, so I have to take over. The urge to finish is intense, so the sex must be doing something for the buildup I guess, otherwise I wouldn't feel like this. I'm out of ideas at this point. I don't even remember ever cumming from sex alone so this is also a problem. I need tons of visual, auditory, sensing stimulation to push me over the edge. (she's not much of a dirty talker unfortunately, I have to instigate it). I think I'll be OK after it happens the first time. I read somewhere that I should try getting close to the edge, then getting inside of her for the climax. This is problematic because I have to move from a M position to a penetrating position and ruins the focus/moment for me which can lead to a ruined orgasm that feels awful, then have to M like another 5mins to get back to where I was before. Any suggestions? I suspect my penis isn't sensitive enough yet from death grip and the fact that I have to finish through masturbation every time is perpetuating the issue. PS:I have fleshlights but can't use them right now as I am in shared accommodation and it's too risky going to the bathroom to clean the fleshlight.