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Stuck in my daily routine - need new ways to meet women

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Urucansan, Oct 17, 2019.

  1. Oct 17, 2019 #1
    Urucansan

    Urucansan Fapstronaut

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    I guess this is a common problem, in my case Nofap is helping a lot because i always been a shy introvert man, i am not saying i have problem to talk with women, but i am not able to engage a conversation with a stranger.

    Guys i am 27 years old, nofap is slowly transforming in a better new person, but i really want to have a real and true relationship if i want to keep going... honestly nofap hardmode is not for me.
    But how can i find new women, except in the gym i have no chance to meet new people, and i am a boxer, so i rarely talk to women while boxing.

    I wish i was a guy that talks easily with everyone or someone that ask numbers everywhere, but i am not able to do that...
     
    Urucansan, Oct 17, 2019
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  2. Oct 17, 2019 #2
    TheGr8Mattsby

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    How about online dating?

    If you’d rather meet women in person there must be some sports/activity group in your area you could join.

    Also I guarantee you could be someone who goes up to random women in every day life. It just takes balls and practise.
     
    TheGr8Mattsby, Oct 17, 2019
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  3. Oct 17, 2019 #3
    Toprawman

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    Bro, Concerts, Music Festivals are your best bet. Block parties, Outdoor markets all have gave me great results. Think about talking to women just as you would if you were talking to anybody else. Ask them a question without expecting any type of result.
     
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  4. Oct 18, 2019 #4
    fredisthebes

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    Might sound strange, but start by talking to guys - just be friendly, ask a few questions or chat about what's going on around you - and older women and couples. Don't overdo it, just exchange a few sentences and wish them a good day. Notice how easy it is, and how nice it is to make a connection with a stranger. Now try it with some young ladies.
    Don't worry if they are rude to you, you've lost nothing.

    online dating is really worth a try, though. Sounds like you are fit and healthy so get some fitness/gym photos and one of you smiling with your friends looking like a cool guy and you are sorted!
     
    fredisthebes, Oct 18, 2019
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  5. Oct 18, 2019 #5
    Urucansan

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    Thanks guys

    Yes, it's all about get used to it i think, like an exercise you have to practice to improve...
    I could start by talking with old people, asking information, untill i become more confident

    The problem is that in my city here in south Italy, dating apps are not used that much, only Tinder, but i never got a good match from it
     
    Urucansan, Oct 18, 2019
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